The day finally came, and I got to be with my boyfriend. Robb flew into town to see me in December of 2015. When I saw him, I was a little shocked; he looked so different, I know now, that the selfies he was sending me, were very old..he did not look the same.
Even so, I was so happy…right away…we left to go to my apartment, I got to take him home…my boyfriend. On the way, Robb wanted to go to the liquor store because we were heading to the coast that next day…the owner recognized Robb from Ghost Hunters International and got his autograph…we headed home…I was so happy…
The next day we headed for the coast and had a gorgeous view in a gorgeous hotel room…our balcony was basically right on haystack rock, very famous in Oregon. We ended drinking and we talked so much, we talked for hours…I loved him so much…then we headed to a restaurant there at the coast.
Robb had left to use the restroom and an old couple approached me and asked if that was Robb Demarest; I said yes. They asked if they could get his autograph, I told them that I was sure he would not mind.
When Robb came back, his mood had changed, he seemed agitated and wanted to leave the restaurant…
I took the couple over to Robb and introduced them to him…he was rude and mean to them…it was crazy…
I started seeing this side of Robb, one minute nice and sweet calling me baby and the next minute mad.
As we left to walk back to our room, I asked why he was so rude and he was just telling me to SHUT THE FUCK UP and SHUT UP OR HE WILL QUIET ME.
I started crying which made him even more mad at me.
For hours I cried as he sat on the chair and drank in our room…I ended up crying myself to sleep...
When I woke up, he was so drunk and came over to the bed and said, Baby, I am sorry, let’s just forget this, I love you and I don’t want to hurt you, you are my wife…
He is actually the nicest drunk and very sweet when he is super drunk…I noticed this that night and from there on. We ended up having sex all night…whatever he wanted…I did everything that he wanted, comfortable or not…I wanted to make him happy.
The next morning we woke up…I wanted to take pictures by the ocean, pictures of us. We had a few together, but he wanted me to also just take pictures of him by himself and more so.
He reminded me again and again, that I was not to post these pictures of us.
That night, we drove back to Portland. I was going to introduce Robb to my Shanghai Tunnels family, as I used to say and call them. It would be the first time he would take a tour and meet everyone.
Robb did not seem very impressed and was bored. He kept saying he wanted us to go home.
The last night was the night he would meet my friends. My friends would later tell me how he made fun of me and was very rude behind me back, but they wanted to support my boyfriend and knew how happy and in love that I was that they just put up with it but secretly, I would find out later, that they could not stand him.
Robb would then leave and I would not see him for 3 months. We were still messaging and I was still sending him 1000’s of pictures and videos.
He told me that he loved me and that I was his baby, his wife to be. It is not a secret that I am a human trafficking survivor and Robb knew my story.
Robb wanted to do an event at the Shanghai Tunnels and said that it would help to raise awareness of human trafficking.
I talked to my paranormal investigator friend Debbie Constantino a few months back before all this, and she wanted to help me as well and said she would do this event with Robb, but sadly she ended up passing away.
Another thing that I was distraught over…I thought it was strange when Debbie had passed away that Robb said that they were good friends and knew each other well…but when I mentioned Robb to Debbie back then, she cautioned me to be careful and was not too happy I was with him, but she never went into detail about why.
I never did tell Robb this, I did not want to hurt his feelings. Now that she has passed, I will never know her story…but I can only guess…
We then started to get the event in motion. I had a few friends in the radio business. I asked if they could have Robb and me on to promote this event. Robb confirmed that the date was fine and he would love to do the interview and would do it for me.
The day of the broadcast, I confirmed with Robb on messenger , that we were to go on air in 2 hours…
I ended up doing the whole thing by myself, he never called in despite our many tries to call him from the show.
I cried so hard that night and left him a message crying and how could he do this to me…my friends, family…even my boss was listening in…wondering what happened…I was humiliated…an hour after the show he simply messaged I love you…see you in 2 weeks.
After that weekend he kept calling and I would just ignore him…he left me messages saying that he could not believe I was that upset, that a lot of people just skip out of radio shows and that no one reminded him…it was a nightmare…I, of course, forgave him but I was simply going down hill emotionally…
Robb put me on a emotional roller coaster…always mad at me, then loved me…back and forth…demanded pictures and videos and monitoring my FB.
(to be continued)