(Final part of Annaliesje’s story, in her own words -)
Checklist of what Robb Demarest says or does.
Robb will –
- Meet you online on FB, Twitter, etc or at an event…usually paranormal. Sometimes from a like on one of his comments or pages.
- Say he loves you
- Call you Baby
- Tell you that you are his girlfriend
- Tell you that he is divorced
- Talk bad about everyone in the paranormal, even in his own local group
- Tell you how people wronged him in the paranormal field
- Tell you about his family wronging him
- Tell you stories of his friends cheating on their girlfriends and that he could never understand why they cheat
- Tell you that he is a 1 woman man and you are the one, he does not believe in cheating, and if you do, you are out!
- Beg you to have his baby and let him get you pregnant and have God decide
- Call you his wife, wife-to-be or his fiancée. You are spoken for.
- Send you tons and tons of cartoon stickers, mostly pregnant girl ones
- Say romantic things to you (online) but in person…just drama and passive aggressive behavior
- Make you question your recognition of memories between both of you and second guess yourself
- Make you feel that you can change him and protect him from what your friends and family say about him
- Have you make him your priority and make you feel like distancing your friends and plans for him
- Make you feel sorry for him
- Charm you and make you forget the ugliness of things between you both that has happened..the fighting but he will remind you that it was all you
- Send pictures back to you that you had sent him..to make you feel uncomfortable
- Constantly beg for naked pictures and videos telling you what he wants you to do in them
- Cut you off for days if you question or say something he does not want to hear or he will change the subject or just keep texting you cartoon messages as a response
- Hate your friends, only like the married ones
- Tell you that he is your best friend and that is final
- Call or text at his own time and you better be there for him 24/7
- Tell you his phone is broken or he does not have one, he will only do everything online
- Tell you how and what to post on-line and tell you things like don’t cut your hair or not to go
- Talk bad about all his girlfriends, they are all cheaters and liars
- Use his celebrity status (if you can call it that) to charm his way to you
- Make you keep your relationship private but will make you change your status to (IN A RELATIONSHIP) ON FB. He will not change his and will monitor your posts.
- Not talk to you for days or weeks at a time periodically
- Make you feel like you are on eggshells around him..he gets mad very easily
- Get jealous very easily
- Talk bad about other paranormal involved people that are relatively famous, but then he will post a picture of himself with them, example…profile pic on FB
- Tell you he wants to help you with your kids and wants a baby with you
- Tell you he wants to get an apartment with you and give you a timeline when he will move out of the house and on his own without his ex wife
- Plan a future of marriage with you
The End – as Robb used to say.