Robb Apologises

Heads-up – if you’re reading this and expecting my usual snark, you are going to be disappointed.

I published my previous post late on Wednesday night, and I woke up on Thursday morning to this message –

Robb Demarest – Jackie, I apologize for hurting and being insensitive to your feelings. You deserved much better treatment, and I was wrong. I should have said this a long time ago. I’m sorry.

I didn’t respond immediately, but frankly, I felt it was grossly inadequate, and I was somewhat suspicious of his motives.

More messages trickled in during the day, until finally this –

Robb Demarest – Nyok, would you (sp) prefer I not message?

I figured at that stage that I should respond.

Now, if there’s one thing that really bugs me, it’s having my name dragged through the mud by Robb’s fans since I broke the story over 2 years ago.

So I replied by sending him a screenshot of John Buffoon’s, oops, Buffam’s comment on my Facebook wall (did I say no snark? I lied)


Then –

Jackie M: Robb, first of all, I forgave you a long time ago…

(I followed with a laundry list of gripes, and a request for him to post a separate apology on FB and to tell his fans to back off from attacking me)

Robb Demarest: All good points. It irked me when anyone attacked you…I want a standalone apology.

I’m so sorry it got to this. Take a look at the post tomorrow and let me know what you think. Before that, Jackie, I am sorry.

Jackie M: Okay thank you

Robb Demarest: My genuine words are posted. If ANYONE is nasty to you, I will defriend them. I’m trying to do my best to be better. If you ever want to talk, I’m here.

This was what he posted on his Facebook wall:

Robb Demarest
July 6 at 3:19 PM
Jackie, I am deeply sorry for the pain I caused. Any slights I threw at you were disrespectful. I would ask that no one say nasty things to her or I will have to defriend you. She had her reasons for her statements, and insulting her in any way is uncalled for and unacceptable. It is my hope that you accept my apology. It is sincere. Robb


I was still cynical, especially when he deleted a comment that he felt was attacking him, but left one up which attacked me. I expressed my annoyance and he agreed and deleted that too.

Not long after that post, Robb called and we spoke at length. I challenged him stridently and to my surprise, he conceded my points.

This was his message after we got off the phone –

You can’t disagree when the other person is right. Also, I think you would be proud of the direction I’m trying to take my life in. Talk soon. Have a good night.

And thank you.

Saturday morning, one of the women whose story I’ve never told, made contact and urged me to talk to him further. She felt we needed to resolve this.

So we had another phonecall, which lasted just under 2 hours.

I took him to task every time it sounded like he was trying to plant doubt about some of the stories. He backed down on all but the most serious allegation.

He had also heard from someone that I claimed we were engaged for 3 years. If you’ve read my story, you’d know that’s not what I said; we were engaged for a brief period, but we dated for 4 years. He had called me a liar on social media based on incorrect third hand information.

I also demanded there be no attempts at character assassination of the women; the fact remained that he made promises and lied to them about being monogamous. He agreed.

At the end, I came away recognising that he is a work-in-progress, but I’m grateful he has taken definite steps in the right direction.

I also got him to craft a personal apology to Annaliesje, which I sent to her –

Jackie M: Annaka, this is from Robb –

Robb Demarest: Ahna, what I did to you was mean, hurtful, and nasty especially knowing what happened to you in the past. I apologize, but I don’t expect you to accept.  I really screwed up. That said, I really am sorry.

Jackie M: I told him I’d check if you wanted him to call you directly so you could give him an earful

Annaliesje: No.. I don’t need to talk to him.. I accept his apology and hope he can be happy and live life.. it is nice that he apologized .. thanks Jackie for letting me know thank you for all that you’ve done for all of us that have suffered and been in pain ..

… thank you for everything…


I get that opinion will be divided on this latest development –

  • Some will feel this is too little, too late.

I can only say that I believe someone paid for my own sins with his blood 2000 years ago, so the least I can do in turn is to forgive.

Also, if you think I’m being soft on Robb, remember I’m the one who’s put my reputation on the line for over 2 years running this campaign and I’d have kept going for another 20 if I had to.

  • Some will demand I now pull down this website, that at this stage it’s just pure vendetta etc.

Robb himself says that it should stay up. I think that by staying up at for least some time, it serves a number of purposes –

  1. People won’t think I buckled under pressure, or have been lying all along about the stories
  2. They won’t think I got bribed to close it down
  3. It’ll give some continuity to the story and show that there is a resolution to the whole saga; it’ll show that redemption can take place by owning up to one’s past behaviour and taking corrective action
  4. Finally, I guess it will help keep Robb on the straight and narrow until we’re both satisfied that he’s a fully changed man

Thank you to everyone who’s stood by us through this sordid ordeal; it means more than you realise.

For those who tried to give Robb a pass and water down the seriousness of the allegations, Robb himself has this to say – any kind of womanising is not right; if you think it’s cool, you’re basically a d*ck.

Not all of us are together on this; I passed on Robb’s message to a third woman, and she rejected it outright.  

In the same way that I’ve given some of these women a platform to speak out, I will be doing the same for Robb Demarest, so the next post will be from him.

Photo Credit – Ravi Roshan at Unsplash

Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire

I have a message for Robb’s fans – Robb is compelling; I get it. I fell for his lies for 5 years.

Have you wondered why he keeps posting outrageous and slanderous claims on Facebook about a certain Aussie? You know what I mean. The ones that turn into a pity party where you tell him how special he is, and what a psycho nutcase stalker I am, and you promise to take action against me to win brownie points with your celebrity victim Robb Demarest.

Do you think there’s a possibility he’s playing you like a fiddle?

He defames me and stirs up a virtual lynch mob, and then once he gets the traction and attention he craves, what does he do?

He DELETES these posts.

Go back to his FB wall and check.

All that’s left are the those pensive philosophical musings that make him look magnanimous, mature and wise.

Are these the actions of someone who’s been wronged, or of someone who has something to hide?


Photo credit: https://mrericksonrules.com

Okay, I need to back up a little, for those of you who don’t know what I’m talking about.

In between my work and raising my special needs kid, I don’t have the time or the inclination to spy on what Robb’s up to. But sometimes, I get unsolicited messages from strangers who send me updates about Robb, usually because they know his capacity for damage if left unfettered, and they want me to call him out on it.

Someone sent me some screenshots of what Robb has been posting on his Facebook wall over the last couple of weeks.

Then they reported back to say that these posts have disappeared. I’m guessing Robb has been doing this for much longer than this past fortnight, but I’m not going to sweat it.

They think he’s drunk posting, but I’ve seen Robb’s drunk posts and they’re riddled with a lot more typos than what’s in these, so I would suggest it’s actually a deliberate, malicious campaign by Robb to smear me without legal consequence.

Anyhow, while I was mulling over the content of these screenshots, I received a private message from Robb Demarest himself.

Some elements of this most recent message are reminiscent of what his own wife sent me several months back (I’d been holding back on talking about that because of their kids).

Here is what he wrote –


Robb Demarest:
Hello Jackie. You mentioned how deceitful and unrepentant (sp) my recent comments had been. With my full permission, would you be okay with me sending official documents that prove I was never charged with sexual assault. My belief is I have been repentant with ppl I dated. That is the truth. I dated one person since Saudi Arabia. She dumped me. Such is life. You have every right, as you know, to print this, but I ask (sp) you to stop. You won. You made my two children embarrassed to be my children. I have one more para event and then I’m done. I hope we can stop after that , but if not I will go all out. Feel free to publish this one your pages.
I have ZERO interest in you getting in trouble.
 You have horrifically embarrassed my children. I remain completely single but enough is enough.So

I’ll address the other points in his message another time, but these statements are what I want to focus on right now –

  • “I have ZERO interest in getting you in trouble”

Robb, if that’s the case, could you explain this post on your Facebook page from around that same time, which

  • implies that I’ve been trying to hack your accounts
  • rallies your troops to file reports with law enforcement
  • smears my reputation among them so that they think I’m a “psycho”, a “stalker” and a “nutcase”
  • claims that you’ve contacted the FBI and the Secret Service about me (stop laughing, everyone else)?





Robb Demarest:

Attempted hacks on me: Facebook, Twitter, Bank, DMV, LinkedIn, Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail. That said, it’s obvious who you are. You lie and you deceive, yet here I am. People are deceived in thinking the government will deal with justice, but trust me it’s getting close! Aussie Aussie Aussie…..


Yes I have. A combination of the secret service and FBI (sp). No response.


Obviously FBI….no response.

Well, for those of you who actually BELIEVE Robb has been hacked, do you know he’s been regurgitating that same story since he and I first met in 2011? Here are a couple of examples from past conversations –



Robb Demarest:

Couldn’t have them getting hacked out of my email!


People have tried. I get emails that someone tried to change my pwd


Sick of FB. People trying to hack (sp) me every 10 min. Was even accused of being a pedo (sp) on Twitter because I sent a very normal and polite msg to a young fan.

When I told one of the other women about his most recent hacking claim and its attribution to me, she backs me up on it –


He is a big fat liar..he always says people hack (sp) his accounts..anything to get sympathy from people..he is such a good sociopathic liar…

And as for the stalker thing, it’s another Robb Humble Brag going back years –


Robb Demarest:

They spread really malicious rumors, threaten your life directly, give out your home address, etc. Of course, I took it all in stride, but I did pick up a concealed weapons permit and start lugging a 9mm around with me.


BTW, try and guess which poster I have pegged as a stalker…


I had someone follow me all over south florida. I didn’t (sp) want to go home and show them where I lived. So I drove to my Boss’s (sp) house =) Of course he has very menacing security guys. So, I think that dissuaded my pursuers. All very strange.


Good call on Ms. Hickox. My stalkers are so lazy.

For those of you still buying into his act, I’m sorry to disappoint you; whether Robb does it for attention or because he truly is that paranoid, the fact remains that I’m no hacker, and I’m doubtful any of his past girlfriends are either.

I also find it rather interesting that you would demand proof of Robb’s wrongdoings (it’s right here, you just need to actually read the interviews & transcripts), yet you buy into his baseless claim that I’m behind these hacking attempts, hook, line and sinker.

Very odd.

Another thing Robb knows about me is that it’s not my “M.O.” as he himself said in my previous blog post. He KNOWS I don’t go around stalking and hacking him, so folks, you can put away your pitchforks and go home.

I personally have zero interest in stalking Mr. Demarest. Pretty much every piece of information I share here is either a transcript from my chats with him or with the other women, or it was sent to me by people who are just fed-up and can see through this guy’s lies.

  • “I believe I have been repentant (sp) with ppl I dated”

Robb, I checked my spam folder and couldn’t find any form of apology from you, and neither could any of the other women I talked to.

In fact, to date you’ve done nothing but deny, obfuscate and outright lie about what you did. Just so we’re on the same page – repentance is not the same as “feeling sorry for myself because I got caught”

And it’s not this watered-down confession (which you also deleted) – where you somehow manage to present yourself as the victim (I’ve cropped the rest of the message because I want to address that in a later post) –


  • “I have one more para event and then I’m done”

You’re done seeking fame, the platform which enables you to attract and take advantage of vulnerable victims? I know about the “para event” – someone sent me a link to it.

Then please explain this – which the same person also sent me a link to, also from the last couple of weeks –


Spent the afternoon hashing out “The Other Rowling” TV series with my exec producer/co-creator, Robb Demarest (of Ghost Hunters and Ghost Hunters International fame), and I’m feeling pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty good (à la Larry David)

Fun fact – someone else who knew about my website tried to warn Ms. Rowling – she responded, apparently, by blocking that person. What does that tell you about those who know and yet choose to turn a blind eye?

To the Robb fan, what does all this tell you about this guy?

It tells me that by deliberately posting lies about me, then deleting them, Robb is staging a virtual campaign to malign me without getting sued.

They are the actions of an unrepentant coward.

I’m accessible to everyone who wants to know more about the Robb story. You can choose to read up on everything on this site, and contact me directly for more proof. Or you can continue to malign and slander me while you consciously remain in the dark because you’re so blinded by your brush with “celebrity”.

The day Robb Demarest truly repents is the day my website gets deleted; until that happens, this “psycho stalker nutcase” will continue to write about him.



Robb Demarest Makes Contact

Since I last posted, I’ve heard from other women, including Robb’s wife (the same woman he claimed back in 2014 that he was officially divorced from, though apparently she never got the memo). Maybe one day I’ll share more; we shall see.

What did come as an unexpected surprise was a friend request back in February this year (2018) from – of all people – Robb Demarest himself. Evidently he’d decided to unblock me after 2 years, and wanted to talk. This was his message –


Robb: Hello Jackie. Do you know who did the stupid fake Robb page? That is so not your m.o. I’d also like to send a letter from N. Ireland to state that I am not being accused of any crime. Obviously, I’d like to see if we can come to a peaceful conclusion. I am in contact with several police agencies in Sydney, but as you seem bored of it, maybe a recorded Skype? Anyway, you know I respect you and would like to shut this down! Talk soon, Robb.

I had a look at Robb’s FB page to see what he was talking about, and it looked like he had been ranting about a fake Robb Demarest profile that someone had set up (with Robb spelled as “Rob” – which tells me this person is a genius troll, since it’s Robb’s biggest pet peeve).

It’s clear from Robb’s message that he is still completely unrepentant and in denial about what he did, with his stupid legalistic parsings about not being currently accused of any crime in Northern Ireland, where the report was filed, and with the not-so-subtle threat about being “in contact with several police agencies in Sydney”.

This is why this website needs to stay up. Too many women are bullied into keeping silent.

Since I started my crusade, apart from being harassed by Robb’s fans, he’s set his lawyer on me, hired a private investigator (who left me a threatening voicemail), and lodged a police report to try and shut me down. None of it has worked.

Women need to see that it’s okay to stand strong in the face of this kind of intimidation. 

If you’re reading this, I might as well tell you now, Robb.

The police, when they came to visit me back when you first filed the report, had already completely cleared me of any crime; they came, in fact, to see if they could help ME to nail YOU on any crime based on the evidence I had.

So if you’re still in contact with them, THANK YOU for keeping your story alive in their minds; it saves me the trouble of having to remind them myself. Love, your favourite Aussie xx

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I Am Annaliesje (Part 6) – Final Warning

(Final part of Annaliesje’s story, in her own words -)

Checklist of what Robb Demarest says or does.

Robb will –

  • Meet you online on FB, Twitter, etc or at an event…usually paranormal.  Sometimes from a like on one of his comments or pages.
  • Say he loves you


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  • Call you Baby
  • Tell you that you are his girlfriend



  • Tell you that he is divorced
  • Talk bad about everyone in the paranormal, even in his own local group
  • Tell you how people wronged him in the paranormal field
  • Tell you about his family wronging him
  • Tell you stories of his friends cheating on their girlfriends and that he could never understand why they cheat
  • Tell you that he is a 1 woman man and you are the one, he does not believe in cheating, and if you do, you are out!



  • Beg you to have his baby and let him get you pregnant and have God decide
  • Call you his wife, wife-to-be or his fiancée.  You are spoken for.
  • Send you tons and tons of cartoon stickers, mostly pregnant girl ones




  • Say romantic things to you (online) but in person…just drama and passive aggressive behavior
  • Make you question your recognition of memories between both of you and second guess yourself
  • Make you feel that you can change him and protect him from what your friends and family say about him
  • Have you make him your priority and make you feel like distancing your friends and plans for him
  • Make you feel sorry for him



  • Charm you and make you forget the ugliness of things between you both that has happened..the fighting but he will remind you that it was all you



  • Send pictures back to you that you had sent him..to make you feel uncomfortable
  • Constantly beg for naked pictures and videos telling you what he wants you to do in them



  • Cut you off for days if you question or say something he does not want to hear or he will change the subject or just keep texting you cartoon messages as a response
  • Hate your friends, only like the married ones
  • Tell you that he is your best friend and that is final
  • Call or text at his own time and you better be there for him 24/7
  • Tell you his phone is broken or he does not have one, he will only do everything online
  • Tell you how and what to post on-line and tell you things like don’t cut your hair or not to go
  • Talk bad about all his girlfriends, they are all cheaters and liars
  • Use his celebrity status (if you can call it that) to charm his way to you
  • Make you keep your relationship private but will make you change your status to (IN A RELATIONSHIP) ON FB. He will not change his and will monitor your posts.
  • Not talk to you for days or weeks at a time periodically
  • Make you feel like you are on eggshells around him..he gets mad very easily
  • Get jealous very easily



  • Talk bad about other paranormal involved people that are relatively famous, but then he will post a picture of himself with them, example…profile pic on FB
  • Tell you he wants to help you with your kids and wants a baby with you
  • Tell you he wants to get an apartment with you and give you a timeline when he will move out of the house and on his own without his ex wife



  • Plan a future of marriage with you



The End – as Robb used to say.


I Am Annaliesje (Part 5) – The Unravelling

(Annaliesje in her own words, continues…)

I tried texting him back…I would not hear from him until the next day…of course I was at work and upset.  

He called me at work, on my lunch and said that there was an old girlfriend and other girls he dated that are out to get him…I told him that I did not care, that was a long time ago…

As long as you have not cheated on me…I don’t care…he said he would never hurt me and that he loved me…that Friday, I was to teach my very first class…early morning at 8.30am…

Now it was Thursday morning and my phone was blowing up from messages and texts about my boyfriend, Robb…it’s all over the internet…a fraud…cheater…double life…married…all these women…

I then got a call from a reporter…I was literally in shock…I was still in my PJ’s and could not move out of bed…I had to get a throw up pan and was constantly throwing up…The reporter gave me Jackie’s info…the whistle blower…

I messaged her…why are you doing this to Robb Demarest? 


Annaliesje Trees – I’m sorry to bother you but why are you doing this to Robb Demerest (sp) I just need to know. Thank you (April 1, 2016)

Annaliesje Trees – Will you please call me? I need closure please. 503xxxxxx I need to know the truth. Thank you…You can call me on messenger as well. (April 1, 2016)

She went on to tell me…I was so sick…I was so in shock…I couldn’t move…shaking…crying…

I texted Robb…he said ignore them…it is all lies…

I dated them years and years ago…

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(Did you) really message this woman in February (2016)?

(The evidence – )


(Message from Robb Demarest to Jackie M on 2 Feb, 2016)

Robb Demarest –

You are my tiny baby

My Tang


I own the rights to Nyok Tang

Call yourself Jackie all u want but I’ll sue u

(2 Feb 2016)

(Robb’s explanation for the evidence)


(Robb Demarest claimed this was old conversation but note the mention of losing his (Saudi) job which was a recent occurrence)

Robb Demarest – 

…Swear on my kids

I wanted you 24/7

(Then come over!)

If I had the money…I got let go

(It doesn’t cost much to fly, right?)

I lost my job, Nyok. You should be my sugar momma 😉


(Feb 2016)



(Conversation between Robb Demarest and Jackie M Feb 2016 re: Vietnam)

Robb Demarest – 

Hell Yes! Can we get sponsors?

(I can start asking….Vietnam I have to get my assistant to research)

Cambodia? Laos?

(Okay will put sth together)


Can I xxxxxx you?




Btw I really want to…

(You’d better not be seeing anyone else)

I’m not, and you better whisper…

(February 2016)

He tried calling me over and over and texted me…

Ignored him…he texted me that he did not want to hurt me that maybe we should break up so then when people ask about him…I could say we aren’t together any longer but we will secretly keep dating…

Just to give it a rest for awhile until this whole thing blows over…

The rest of the day…it was all over FB…Twitter and on the news…

I ignored my friends and family…

I was in shock, remember, that next morning, I was to teach my very  first fitness class…and I did it, to be honest, I don’t even remember teaching it…

I know now, that was because I was in severe shock, I could barely see out of my almost closed swollen eyes.  

(More evidence from a different woman – Woman #6’s message to Robb Demarest when she found out about his trip to see Annaliesje)

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Robb would text me a few more times through the week and then it stopped.  

The aftermath was awful…I got hate texts and messages from people in the paranormal and even people I did not know.  

Again, calling me a slut, liar and more or less an attention getter trying to get fame from Robb Demarest.  

When these women were coming forward, I again,  got another shock treatment, when I recognized one of the women, I had actually gone to school with her in the 9th grade and we were best friends and even modeled together for the same agency, she had moved to California and become famous!

Woman #8 & childhood friend of Annaliesje, Mia St. John

It is a small world out there.

The women that were coming forward, I noticed that we all looked so much alike. Mostly dark hair and dark eyes.  

I ended up going to counseling; it has been a tough road but I am much better.  

I look back on this, thinking, what was I thinking and how dumb was I to have believed all of this and putting up with it.  Most people out there will say, why did you not get out of it quickly. You are stupid and etc.  I don’t know.  

For over the past 3 years, I have been going through a lot. My marriage ended after 20 years, losing friends that had sided with my ex-husband and tried to flow bad rumors about me in the paranormal and lies, the human trafficking fiasco including the TV episode I was in about it, trying to hide it all from my family,  a terrible modeling agent, and my mental health taking its toll.  

I am now out of the paranormal and no longer with The Shanghai Tunnels.  I have to stay out of the paranormal, it is not healthy for me mentally or physically.

All the time in dusty basements and investigating old houses etc, has taken an effect on my lungs.  I still today, have a spot on my lung, a lung infection, pneumonia.   This is my opinion,  but I feel like the paranormal field changes people, it did me.

I was not myself and  I began  not being happy and I was always frustrated and unhappy. There are a lot of badisms in this field. It changed me too but I changed back and got out of it.  

This will make these people mad at me for saying this but a lot of people in these groups knew about Robb and turned the other way.  His friends would even reach out to me telling me that they believe me but yet they are still friends with him to this very day.  I really don’t get it.

Robb never had anything nice to say about anyone , especially famous paranormal people out there, yes, I know about you guys. He told me how a guy from Ghost Hunters International took his job away and about his girlfriend on the show; he made me watch her on an episode on a DVD when he was here and told me she was a cheater and that her sister wanted them to get married and how all girls cheated on him. He continued over and over and over again, trash talked about everyone in the paranormal.


One of many examples of Robb’s conversations about paranormal celebrities

Robb will try to convince you that you are the one and he will pressure you to get pregnant over and over again! Yes, there was a baby involved and NO, it’s not what you think…I will leave it at that…I don’t want to talk anymore about this subject.

I am not doing this for revenge; to this very day, I still get told by friends and family to move on. They will never really understand and have never gone through this. Please let God judge…don’t judge me.  

As I have learned in counseling, people heal and recover at different speeds. I had to do this letter for me and for all women that have gone or is going through something like this.

I really want all women out there and paranormal groups out there, to really look at what’s going on.  We all are daughters, sisters, aunts , mothers and grandmothers or have them. Would you want any of this stuff to happen to them? You may hate me or not like me but I would not wish these things on my enemies!!  

I have gotten comments like – This has nothing to do with the Paranormal.  Oh, but it does.  The facts are out there, I have taken the steps to protect myself as proof! I trust no-one anymore! I have grown stronger and have learned from this, I have since gotten closer to God and have new friends in the fitness world focusing  on positivity and looking for a much brighter future and look at life.  

I still go to counseling and have started my life over.  I will never be broken again by a sexual predator, mind mixer and a fraud like Robb, ever again!

Girls, if you are currently with him, just know that I have said many prayers for you, because you will need them, because he will destroy your life like he almost destroyed mine.

(final instalment to come…)


I Am Annaliesje (Part 4) – Shanghai Tunnels

(Annaliesje’s story in her own words continues -)

Then there was another crisis with Robb…the event organiser, Shanghai Tunnels, got Robb a business class instead of first class  plane ticket.

Robb totally lost it…


He threatened to cancel the whole event so they ended up buying him a first class ticket to Portland…

Remember Shanghai tunnels is a non-profit and this was a charity event.  

Robb was to call the shots or the whole thing would be off.  

The “Rob calm down” response is Robb’s copy-paste of Nita’s message to him.

Also, his promises of promoting the event did not happen…he would share the event only one time on FB and Twitter.  

I spent my time promoting it but refused to make anymore radio show or TV interviews because of what he did with the radio show.

Constantly sticking my neck out for Robb, which eventually caused things to never be the same again between me and the people at the Shanghai Tunnels.    

Robb would blow his fuse yet again.  

I was trying to promote the Shanghai Tunnels event, so I messaged a bunch of my FB friends in the paranormal groups. I did not really know them personally,  but they were friends on my FB…

One guy messaged me back…he had a paranormal group in Italy…he said his group would share the event, and he made a comment that I was so beautiful.  

I messaged Robb the group’s name from my messenger and asked if he knew these guys…

I was so happy…I attached the message but it also included that comment of me being beautiful…

All of a sudden..I get voice messages from Robb…

He threatened this poor guy and sounded crazy…and drunk…

Voice message from Robb which he said he sent the Italian guy –

He called me that night and said that he loved me so much…that when he is here in a few days he is going to make it up to me…

…the time when he did not call me on Christmas just texted me Christmas night and said Merry Christmas baby…I love you

…and did not call me on New Year’s Eve

…and did not call me on my birthday…just a text that night…happy birthday


…also Valentine’s Day…nothing…no call or text

…all the things that he did to hurt me

…he was going to make it up to his wife to be, when he gets to Portland to be with me.


Robb would arrive 3 days early to spend more time with me and meet my family for the first time…my sister, cousins and more close friends.

We called it the Indonesian party and I stressed it had to be secret…

It would be a disaster…Robb was rude and my friends and sister…cousins..could not stand him…He was not friendly.  

We ended fighting…we fought the rest of the time…then we made up…repeat…

The  Shanghai Tunnels event ended up being a complete failure…very little tickets sold and Robb really did not want to be there, he kept saying it all night to me.  

He held it together though, charming as he was with his words...with his speeches…even funny at times…One girl asked him if he had a girlfriend..and he said yes…I love my girlfriend…Robb did donate money to the fund…he said if anyone donated money, tell him how much and he would match it.

I gave the scheduled speech about Human Trafficking that I was supposed to give but ended up losing it, it was extremely hard for me and Robb saved me and finished the speech, he could be so sweet at times.  He took me shopping and bought me a lot of things…and told me we were going to be going on a vacation and that he wanted to meet my mom and dad…

Dad films a lot with Outdoor Channel and Robb was hoping to meet Dad and talk...He also said that we needed to find a bigger apartment together and  we needed to start planning.


Robb left that Sunday morning…

…it was Easter…

I was at mass when I got a strange text from him saying that a crazy bitch from Australia was out to get him…

(to be continued…)


I am Annaliesje (Part 3) – Robb, Your Wife Called

(Annaliesje’s story in her own words, continues – )

I ended up seeing a psychic medium who was also a good friend of mine at the time.  My friends went with me; it was more like an intervention than a reading…they were all worried about this relationship and also my mental health and physical health.

I was working full time, tunnel tours, managing making my boyfriend happy and training to be a fitness instructor.  I ended up losing one of my really good friends that night because she said that she could not take this anymore with Robb…We were friends for about 8 years.  

I ignored all their advice even though I knew deep down they were right…I wanted and loved my boyfriend, I knew I could change him for the better. My health started to deteriorate, regardless I still kept on…

Robb informed me that he had an event and that we would not be able to talk, which I was used to…sometimes he would go away missing for periods of time…


…the longest was when he moved back to Florida from Saudi.  


I was not only stressed with my relationship with Robb, still suffering from scars from the human trafficking fiasco and constant mean texts and bullying on social media about being a slut, a liar and an attention getter (I still do to this very day), but that week that Robb was at an event, I was to take my fitness certification and also audition that Friday…

Friday came, and I got it…I passed my certification and landed the job of being a fitness instructor at a gym…I was so happy…I took a selfie in the mirror at the gym where I got hired…I was sooooooooooo  happy…I texted my boyfriend, Robb , at the time, thinking he would not get it until that Sunday…


I was shocked to get a text quickly back saying he was happy for me…that he loved me and in a few more days…we would be together…

My happiness turned to devastation within 30 minutes from that text.  As I was driving home from the gym, so happy and on cloud 9…I got a strange text from one of the Shanghai Tunnels volunteers that schedules tours and events…she said, I need you to call me now…

I texted her back saying that I was driving…she asked me to pull over and to call her…thinking something horrible happened, I quickly called her…

She said, I want you to know I got a call from Robb’s WIFE…I then chuckled , I actually remember this whole conversation…I said, oh you mean Robb’s EX WIFE…she said, no, his WIFE.  

Once again, my heart sank as it did often in this relationship…She had called looking for Robb and said he needed to come home and help with the kids, that her mother passed away in South Africa.  

She then said to Robb’s wife, I was not aware that Robb was married, she said, yes, they were married but it is probably on its way out.  She told her that indeed Robb did have an event with them but it was not for another week and that her understanding was that he was at another event this weekend.

She did not tell Robb’s wife that in fact that he would be coming early that week to stay with me.   I ended up throwing up and getting sick.  

Robb knew I was Catholic and a Christian and I don’t believe in adultery…I am not judging people out there, I am just saying I don’t want any part of it and Robb told me he was divorced.  

The situation Robb had said is that they had to share a house together otherwise she would be in the street and had nowhere to go and this was best for the kids.  They had separate rooms and if I did not believe him, he would furnish pictures of it and that I could speak to her and she would tell me the same.

I then tried to call Robb over and over…leaving him messages

Then, another shock as Robb’s wife ended up messaging one of my friends in the paranormal and he reached out to me and said what the hell…

But I never got a message from her…just my friends and people from the Shanghai Tunnels.  

That Sunday, Robb called back. I ignored his calls, I was just sick.  

He was mad at me and said that we have nothing if I do not trust him and that she only said wife because if she would have said EX WIFE…no one would help her.  I ended up believing him as did the volunteer I was just speaking of.  

He was good at saving himself…he is a charmer…He can make you even believe the world is a triangle…He is a great story teller…

(to be continued…)