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I Am Annaliesje (Part 4) – Shanghai Tunnels

(Annaliesje’s story in her own words continues -)

Then there was another crisis with Robb…the event organiser, Shanghai Tunnels, got Robb a business class instead of first class  plane ticket.

Robb totally lost it…

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He threatened to cancel the whole event so they ended up buying him a first class ticket to Portland…

Remember Shanghai tunnels is a non-profit and this was a charity event.  

Robb was to call the shots or the whole thing would be off.  

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The “Rob calm down” response is Robb’s copy-paste of Nita’s message to him.

Also, his promises of promoting the event did not happen…he would share the event only one time on FB and Twitter.  

I spent my time promoting it but refused to make anymore radio show or TV interviews because of what he did with the radio show.

Constantly sticking my neck out for Robb, which eventually caused things to never be the same again between me and the people at the Shanghai Tunnels.    

Robb would blow his fuse yet again.  

I was trying to promote the Shanghai Tunnels event, so I messaged a bunch of my FB friends in the paranormal groups. I did not really know them personally,  but they were friends on my FB…

One guy messaged me back…he had a paranormal group in Italy…he said his group would share the event, and he made a comment that I was so beautiful.  

I messaged Robb the group’s name from my messenger and asked if he knew these guys…

I was so happy…I attached the message but it also included that comment of me being beautiful…

All of a sudden..I get voice messages from Robb…

He threatened this poor guy and sounded crazy…and drunk…

Voice message from Robb which he said he sent the Italian guy –

He called me that night and said that he loved me so much…that when he is here in a few days he is going to make it up to me…

…the time when he did not call me on Christmas just texted me Christmas night and said Merry Christmas baby…I love you

…and did not call me on New Year’s Eve

…and did not call me on my birthday…just a text that night…happy birthday

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…also Valentine’s Day…nothing…no call or text

…all the things that he did to hurt me

…he was going to make it up to his wife to be, when he gets to Portland to be with me.

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Robb would arrive 3 days early to spend more time with me and meet my family for the first time…my sister, cousins and more close friends.

We called it the Indonesian party and I stressed it had to be secret…

It would be a disaster…Robb was rude and my friends and sister…cousins..could not stand him…He was not friendly.  

We ended fighting…we fought the rest of the time…then we made up…repeat…

The  Shanghai Tunnels event ended up being a complete failure…very little tickets sold and Robb really did not want to be there, he kept saying it all night to me.  

He held it together though, charming as he was with his words...with his speeches…even funny at times…One girl asked him if he had a girlfriend..and he said yes…I love my girlfriend…Robb did donate money to the fund…he said if anyone donated money, tell him how much and he would match it.

I gave the scheduled speech about Human Trafficking that I was supposed to give but ended up losing it, it was extremely hard for me and Robb saved me and finished the speech, he could be so sweet at times.  He took me shopping and bought me a lot of things…and told me we were going to be going on a vacation and that he wanted to meet my mom and dad…

Dad films a lot with Outdoor Channel and Robb was hoping to meet Dad and talk...He also said that we needed to find a bigger apartment together and  we needed to start planning.

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Robb left that Sunday morning…

…it was Easter…

I was at mass when I got a strange text from him saying that a crazy bitch from Australia was out to get him…

(to be continued…)

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I am Annaliesje (Part 3) – Robb, Your Wife Called

(Annaliesje’s story in her own words, continues – )

I ended up seeing a psychic medium who was also a good friend of mine at the time.  My friends went with me; it was more like an intervention than a reading…they were all worried about this relationship and also my mental health and physical health.

I was working full time, tunnel tours, managing making my boyfriend happy and training to be a fitness instructor.  I ended up losing one of my really good friends that night because she said that she could not take this anymore with Robb…We were friends for about 8 years.  

I ignored all their advice even though I knew deep down they were right…I wanted and loved my boyfriend, I knew I could change him for the better. My health started to deteriorate, regardless I still kept on…

Robb informed me that he had an event and that we would not be able to talk, which I was used to…sometimes he would go away missing for periods of time…

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…the longest was when he moved back to Florida from Saudi.  

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I was not only stressed with my relationship with Robb, still suffering from scars from the human trafficking fiasco and constant mean texts and bullying on social media about being a slut, a liar and an attention getter (I still do to this very day), but that week that Robb was at an event, I was to take my fitness certification and also audition that Friday…

Friday came, and I got it…I passed my certification and landed the job of being a fitness instructor at a gym…I was so happy…I took a selfie in the mirror at the gym where I got hired…I was sooooooooooo  happy…I texted my boyfriend, Robb , at the time, thinking he would not get it until that Sunday…

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I was shocked to get a text quickly back saying he was happy for me…that he loved me and in a few more days…we would be together…

My happiness turned to devastation within 30 minutes from that text.  As I was driving home from the gym, so happy and on cloud 9…I got a strange text from one of the Shanghai Tunnels volunteers that schedules tours and events…she said, I need you to call me now…

I texted her back saying that I was driving…she asked me to pull over and to call her…thinking something horrible happened, I quickly called her…

She said, I want you to know I got a call from Robb’s WIFE…I then chuckled , I actually remember this whole conversation…I said, oh you mean Robb’s EX WIFE…she said, no, his WIFE.  

Once again, my heart sank as it did often in this relationship…She had called looking for Robb and said he needed to come home and help with the kids, that her mother passed away in South Africa.  

She then said to Robb’s wife, I was not aware that Robb was married, she said, yes, they were married but it is probably on its way out.  She told her that indeed Robb did have an event with them but it was not for another week and that her understanding was that he was at another event this weekend.

She did not tell Robb’s wife that in fact that he would be coming early that week to stay with me.   I ended up throwing up and getting sick.  

Robb knew I was Catholic and a Christian and I don’t believe in adultery…I am not judging people out there, I am just saying I don’t want any part of it and Robb told me he was divorced.  

The situation Robb had said is that they had to share a house together otherwise she would be in the street and had nowhere to go and this was best for the kids.  They had separate rooms and if I did not believe him, he would furnish pictures of it and that I could speak to her and she would tell me the same.

I then tried to call Robb over and over…leaving him messages

Then, another shock as Robb’s wife ended up messaging one of my friends in the paranormal and he reached out to me and said what the hell…

But I never got a message from her…just my friends and people from the Shanghai Tunnels.  

That Sunday, Robb called back. I ignored his calls, I was just sick.  

He was mad at me and said that we have nothing if I do not trust him and that she only said wife because if she would have said EX WIFE…no one would help her.  I ended up believing him as did the volunteer I was just speaking of.  

He was good at saving himself…he is a charmer…He can make you even believe the world is a triangle…He is a great story teller…

(to be continued…)

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I Am Annaliesje (Part 2)

The day finally came, and I got to be with my boyfriend. Robb flew into town to see me in December of 2015.  When I saw him, I was a little shocked; he looked so different, I know now, that the selfies he was sending me, were very old..he did not look the same.  

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Robb Demarest in person
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Robb Demarest photo sent to Annaliesje

Even so, I was so happy…right away…we left to go to my apartment, I got to take him home…my boyfriend.  On the way, Robb wanted to go to the liquor store because we were heading to the coast that next day…the owner recognized Robb from Ghost Hunters International and got his autograph…we headed home…I was so happy…

The next day we headed for the coast and had a gorgeous view in a gorgeous hotel room…our balcony was basically right on haystack rock, very famous in Oregon.  We ended drinking and we talked so much, we talked for hours…I loved him so much…then we headed to a restaurant there at the coast.  

Robb had left to use the restroom and an old couple approached me and asked if that was Robb Demarest; I said yes.  They asked if they could get his autograph, I told them that I was sure he would not mind.  

When Robb came back, his mood had changed, he seemed agitated and wanted to leave the restaurant…

I took the couple over to Robb and introduced them to him…he was rude and mean to them…it was crazy…

I started seeing this side of Robb, one minute nice and sweet calling me baby and the next minute mad.  

As we left to walk back to our room, I asked why he was so rude and he was just telling me to SHUT THE FUCK UP and SHUT UP OR HE WILL QUIET ME.  

I started crying which made him even more mad at me.  

For hours I cried as he sat on the chair and drank in our room…I ended up crying myself to sleep...

When I woke up, he was so drunk and came over to the bed and said, Baby, I am sorry, let’s just forget this, I love you and I don’t want to hurt you, you are my wife…

He is actually the nicest drunk and very sweet when he is super drunk…I noticed this that night and from there on.  We ended up having sex all night…whatever he wanted…I did everything that he wanted, comfortable or not…I wanted to make him happy.  

The next morning we woke up…I  wanted to take pictures by the ocean, pictures of us. We had a few together, but he wanted me to also just take pictures of him by himself and more so.

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He reminded me again and again, that I was not to post these pictures of us.

That night, we drove back to Portland. I was going to introduce Robb to my Shanghai Tunnels family, as I used to say and call them.  It would be the first time he would take a tour and meet everyone.  

Robb did not seem very impressed and was bored.  He kept saying he wanted us to go home.  

The last night was the night he would meet my friends.  My friends would later tell me how he made fun of me and was very rude behind my back, but they wanted to support my boyfriend and knew how happy and in love that I was that they just put up with it but secretly, I would find out later, that they could not stand him.

Robb would then leave and I would not see him for 3 months.  We were still messaging and I was still sending him 1000’s of pictures and videos.  

He told me that he loved me and that I was his baby, his wife to be.  It is not a secret that I am a human trafficking survivor and Robb knew my story. 

Robb wanted to do an event at the Shanghai Tunnels and said that it would help to raise awareness of human trafficking.  

I talked to my paranormal investigator friend Debbie Constantino a few months back before all this, and she wanted to help me as well and said she would do this event with Robb, but sadly she ended up passing away.

Another thing that I was distraught over…I thought it was strange when Debbie had passed  away that Robb said that they were good friends and knew each other well…but when I mentioned Robb to Debbie back then, she cautioned me to be careful and was not too happy I was with him, but she never went into detail about why.

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Debbie Constantino with Annaliesje at a Halloween event

I never did tell Robb this, I did not want to hurt his feelings.  Now that she has passed, I will never know her story…but I can only guess…

We then started to get the event in motion.  I had a few friends in the radio business.  I asked if they could have Robb and me on to promote this event.  Robb confirmed that the date was fine and he would love to do the interview and would do it for me.

The day of the broadcast, I confirmed with Robb on messenger , that we were to go on air in 2 hours…

I ended up doing the whole thing by myself, he never called in despite our many tries to call him from the show.

I cried so hard that night and left him a message crying and how could he do this to me…my friends, family…even my boss was listening in…wondering what happened…I was humiliated…an hour after the show he simply messaged I love you…see you in 2 weeks.

After that weekend he kept calling and I would just ignore him…he left me messages saying that he could not believe I was that upset, that a lot of people just skip out of radio shows and that no one reminded him…it was a nightmare…I, of course, forgave him but I was simply going down hill emotionally…

Robb put me on a emotional roller coaster…always mad at me, then loved me…back and forth…demanded pictures and videos and monitoring my FB.  

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(to be continued)

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I am Annaliesje (Part 1)

In my own words…I am Annaliesje.

Once upon a time, he broke me in a million pieces; it felt like tiny knives stabbing me over and over.  That part is gone now.  That was a little over a year ago, a week after Easter. Something I will never forget. A permanent scar, but at least this bleeding wound has healed. I am not perfect or innocent and have never claimed to be…I am human and I make mistakes.

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I met Robb Demarest in March of 2015.  I had been training to become a fitness instructor, my dream job.  A Facebook junkie that I am, I was constantly looking at my favorite newsfeeds and liking my favorites, at times, making comments as most people do on Facebook.  

I still remember that day, It was a Saturday morning, before leaving for training at the gym. I liked and commented on a few things on a page that Robb was included in; I can’t remember on what but I got so excited when he liked my comment.  

All of a sudden, I got an instant message from Robb.  He said simply, Indonesian?

My heart skipped, I was so excited.  

I had been loving the paranormal shows and watched them all, since they had came out at the time.  I always loved Robb and the fact that he spoke his mind and that he seemed strong and educated and had so much experience in the paranormal, but it was not really a crush on Robb, at first, I did not feel anything like that for him, but mainly a friend. Yup, that’s true.  

We exchanged a couple more messages but mainly my nationality and my involvement with the Portland Underground (Shanghai Tunnels). I told him that I was a tour guide and told him of a few things that I had experienced down there.  After a couple more messages, I had told him I had to leave for the gym.  

I messaged my phone number and told him that he could message me anytime, he messaged saying, I am usually JUST ONLINE…I did not think too much about that message at that time.  

I finished my class at the gym and noticed that he friend requested me…I was so excited and happy, I accepted quickly.

We messaged each other that night and from there it was almost daily.  He usually would message at night or early morning.  We started sharing little personal things about each other.  I told him about the friends that I had that turned against me, being a human trafficking survivor and some of the strange things that were happening to me paranormal wise.  

That I was seeing a psychic medium and had a ghost attachment named Nina from the Shanghai Tunnels.  

He asked if I had any kids and I was slightly taken back when he asked me if I would ever get married again or have kids.

It had only been a week.  I told him NO WAY…

He told me that he would make it his goal to change my mind about kids and marriage, that when he meets the right one, he wanted to have another baby and be married.  

He had told me that he was DIVORCED and that he had 2 kids.  

Almost daily, we continued messaging each other.  But, I started to freak out a little bit because everything we did was ONLINE…

I told him, should I be worried about RED FLAGS? Why won’t you call me.  

He then said that he was sorry, he did not live in the States but in Saudi.  He did not have a phone, it was too expensive to use it there, so everything had to be online.  

He then called me using the messenger phone, I still remember when I heard his voice for the first time, I got chills, I was so excited, I started to really fall for him.  

We continued to talk of our stories and goals in life.  He helped me through things that I was going through, the aftermath of Human Trafficking, also, I had an agent at the time, that was steering me in the wrong direction of filming and movies that almost ended up down a wrong path in LA.

I was very naïve and one thing I will have to say, Robb did save me on that.  Little did I know he was seasoning me to believe in him and trust him with some of my very darkest times and personal accounts.

Everything happened very quickly, it was like a whirlwind for me.  Within a few weeks, things were getting serious as we started sending cute little pictures to each other, mostly I would, he maybe had sent a total of 5 pictures of himself to me and no, no nudes.  

He would joke at first and say that he can’t see much with all that clothes on.  

I started showing my bra a few times, like a sneak peek and my lacey underthings.  He would give me the best compliments and say how beautiful and sexy that I was and THAT was his…I almost choked, he said, that I was his??  

If I showed him a boob, he would say, that’s mine.  I started getting more brave and sending more pictures.  We would call them Robb Selfies.  If I did not send one in a while, he would say, I need a Robb Selfie.  

We continued to chat online and everything had to be secret.  

He told me that he was a private person and that he did not want anyone know that we were together, that he had to have something at least to stay private and that he had a judgmental fan base.

When I would post things, I would always would call him GREEN HEART, that way Robb would know I was talking about him…Example.  I love my green heart, I love him…His favorite color was green so I just would type the green heart, it was our thing…a code.  

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Things suddenly changed after a few months, sometimes he would get mad at me for posting my gym selfies and he would not talk to me for a day or two.

If I did not answer when he tried to call me on messenger, he would get upset with me.  

I worked full time and then had gym training. I was also a tour guide and a paranormal investigator;  I was on alert 24/7 by Robb.

Constantly looking at my phone…worried I would be missing a text or call from him.  

This started to affect my job and my friends started getting worried about me and began asking questions and questioning this relationship.  

At first, Robb was upset because I told 3 of my closest friends about us, but I told him that I had to, they were my best friends. I would end up losing them all to this day except for my sister.

He hated them all, he only liked my friends that were married including my sister.  We started talking about him coming to Portland Oregon and seeing the Shanghai Tunnels and that we were going to have time together and go to The Oregon Coast.  

Robb started to call me, HIS L’IL BABY and he called me ONA..instead of Annaliesje or Annaka.  

One day he would be loving and sweet and the next mad at me.

Sometimes he would call me on the messenger phone, drunk…so drunk I could not understand him.  

I started turning down my plans with my friends and running home instead to be on the phone (messenger) with Robb sending him picture after picture…he started requesting videos…

Yes, I did that too.  Anything Robb would ask, I would do.

HE would tell me what he wanted me to do in the videos and pictures…

I am 100% telling the truth that I had sent him 1000’s and 1000’s of pictures and videos within that year we were dating…yes, we were now a couple, as he put it.  

I was his baby and his wife to be, he would say.  

He would send me tons of those online stickers cartoons on messenger, most of them were a picture of a girl pregnant, he wanted us to have a baby together, I said no, I always kept saying no and that I couldn’t.   

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At first it was a funny joke, but it got tiresome for me…I told him to stop with the baby thing…He said nope, that I was going to be the mother of his baby.

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I was the one, that I was spoken for. He told me most psychic  mediums are fake, but one told him that he was going to meet his true love in December and she would end up pregnant with his son.   

My heart sank..I was so in love with Robb Demarest.  He would even say I was going to have his last name someday.  

(to be continued…)

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Meet Woman #7 – Annaliesje’s Story

I wrote about Woman #7 a year ago in Why Are You Doing This To Robb Demarest?  Annaliesje is now ready to go public.

In all honesty, when someone shared this Facebook picture of yet another woman who might be in a relationship with Robb Demarest, I didn’t have the stomach to contact her. She looked besotted and naive, and I was in no mood to take more abuse from those in denial of Robb Demarest’s behaviour.

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I went to bed on 31 March after giving an interview to The Daily Mail. I didn’t realise the reporter would track her down during the night.

I woke up to her messages, which broke my heart –

I would find out later that Annaliesje had been dating Robb since March 2015. Between March 2015 – March 2016 (when my story broke) –

  • He proposed marriage and babies to Woman #1 in February 2016
  • He came back into my life (Woman #2) in January 2016 and talked about moving to Australia to be with me, then settled on a romantic catch-up in Vietnam scheduled for August 2016
  • He was engaged to Woman #3 until November 2015 (then tried to resume the relationship weeks later but got rejected)
  • He wanted Woman #4 to book a hotel room for a rendezvous in June 2015
  • He tried to get back together with Woman #5 in February 2016
  • He was planning a wedding with Woman #6 until December 2015 when she found out about his travel plans to Portland to see Annaliesje

Robb didn’t know I knew all this when Annaliesje read my story. After all, the New Idea Magazine exposé concerned only 3 known women, and they revolved around the time he was filming Haunting:Australia in 2013.

In other words, it’s an old story and part of a less-than-proud past to which he’s hinted in previous conversations, so you’re already prepared for some of the dirt a jealous ex-girlfriend might dish out. Of course, he’s now a completely changed man, and you’re responsible for his redemption because you’re just that special.

I’d heard it all before –

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Thus began Robb Demarest’s campaign to discredit me to Annaliesje –

Claiming that this was ancient history and we never dated –

Suggesting they take a break until this whole thing blows over –

When he ran out of excuses, and perhaps thinking he still had a hold on her –

Robb Demarest’s Monica Lewinsky moment –

Annaliesje is prepared to tell her story. I hope it resonates with other women out there who continue to be played by Robb Demarest. There’s a lot of material to plough through so I’m breaking it into multiple installments. Stay tuned.

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Robb Demarest’s Filipino Maid In Her Own Words

(I’m truly sorry I have to keep writing about this sordid saga, but until Mr. Demarest retires from attempts to prolong his celebrity, making him a danger to other vulnerable women, I will continue to share what I know.)

That’s what Saudi Arabia-based Mr. Demarest called this woman- his Filipino maid.

During our long-distance relationship, Mr. Demarest would occasionally make reference to his “maid”- eg. when he had to cut our Skype conversation short because his maid had arrived, or when he whined about not being able to find something because his maid had probably put it away somewhere without telling him.

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Robb Demarest at my place in 2013 – Jackie M.

This is what his “maid” had to say –

(original transcripts with parts redacted for confidentiality/relevance and rearranged/grouped according to topics)

…Lol maybe his referring to me as his Filipina housekeeper

Fist he cannot have housekeeper because his also one of the servant,  2ND he cannot afford to buy visa for a housekeeper, pay her monthly salary and his kids are not living with him., only during weekend…

Who then is she? –

We chatted (on a dating site) 2011 and meets up in his work house, here in (Saudi Arabia)…

After our 1st & 2nd date 2011, i stop my communication with him..because i have to give space for my self and analyzed his personalty and attitude towards women (that time i can feel something fishi going on). So i started dating with other guys, to forget him.

2013 no idea of the month he texted me and ask me to meet up and spend sometimes, that time i was depress. I refuse to see him but he is very good in convincing ladies, charms and jokes i agree to see him again.

After seeing him..turns into agreement that i have to visit him during weekdays if i have time and weekend, in short we became in touch again…continue till 2014.

It’s hard for me to keep track of how many women he would have been juggling between 2011-2014 so here’s the link to my original (and incomplete) Robb Demarest Relationships Timeline (I’m Woman #2) >> https://robbdemarestcheats.com/2016/04/15/the-robb-demarest-relationships-timeline/

In our early days I had specifically asked Robb Demarest about whether he had dated anyone in Saudi Arabia; this was his response back on Jan 2, 2012 (just days before he told me he had fallen for me) –date.png

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Robb Demarest – …Yup. I don’t anger easily and certainly not with female friends or “partners”. Perhaps where the infidelity came from. I think she wanted more of a hulking jerk. I had the hulking part down but I dont start bar brawls….Next time! =). This was back in the States. I don’t date here. It’s more effort than I am willing to exert. I also dont want to get committed to anything or anyone in Saudi. I have zero desire to stay here. For me, it’s like serving a prison term. I just have to count my days! Speaking of which, spoke to the producer today and he said the meeting is “sometime this week”. I thought it was going to be today but oh well.

So he doesn’t “anger easily” etc. What does his Filipino girlfriend have to say about this gentle giant (and their break-up)?

…His moody  and kinddah jerk – he want me naked walking around the house..sometimes call me your my bitch.

We had a big fight when he open my phone while i was on shower and ask me about the man i dated before., i said he was not here anymore – then his face is so red.. and i feel so scared.. he call me bitch... and i decide not to come back again to his house.

he is close to hit me that big day of us. im so nervous., i just wondering if his on drugs because his hands is always shaking.

his so mad man, he doesn’t care if your hurting in bed..i am just (small) in height compare to his height…every-time i am telling him not to do raft things to me, he do enjoy it, and even your sleep he will wake you up and fores to do sex with him.

He enjoyed seeing you in pain while his doing it

Even saying stop, still he will continue and never say sorry

What he says about women –

…one time i ask him about his past love life. if he have, if he fall in love, he answer never.

I said why – because he said he hate ladies, they are cheater. 

… i ask all of the (TV) cast with him- and i focus on the lady wearing boots, i think shes the xxxxxx., he said that shes after him but shes stinky and she (he) will never go on bed with her.

(Actually yes he did – that’s one of his women ^^- Jackie M.)

Also, as far as me being the only Asian he claimed to have ever dated, it would appear that was made up, now that the Filipina has come forward (not that it matters to me, so chill out. I’m just pointing out his prolific lies).

Not only that, this was what she had to say –

I am not the only Asian women that he f**ked

He told me he met one in dubai, working in a restaurant inside the airport, they dated a while and after that she been dumped by him, I ask why he dump her, he said she (I’ve redacted the rest of what was said because it’s crude and highly derogatory – Jackie M.). His a bad mouth about her. Then I just let it go the topic.

(If you’re reading this and you’re Robb Demarest’s Dubai Asian ex-girlfriend, please contact me if you want to know what he said about you – Jackie M.)

His persona –

…The things i hate about him is letting you feel that your special., and because of that you will do what ever he ask for…but the truth is his just using you for his own good… 

his always telling me that i should be proud of, “that i am dating a T.V. show personality”.

My eyebrow raise of what he said but his self, just ignore it- i thought maybe because his an american.

Using her to further his TV career –

He ask me if i can find him shows in the Philippines for ghost hunting, i have relatives who’s working in channel 7, was planning to contact them when the time he check my phone and we had a big argument., so i forgot it all..

Cropped screenshot of one of her emails (print is too small for entire width) –

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And this is another sample via text –

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