Robb Demarest – The Early Years

A couple of weeks back, I received a message from yet another woman congratulating me for exposing Robb Demarest. I dropped her an email and this was her reply (reprinted here in its original form, with permission) – Robb and I dated while we were both in college during the early to mid 90’s. I…

The Violence

“I’m 6’4” 250 pounds with two earned black belts. There is the potential for me to hurt people very badly.” – Robb Demarest, 2012 I’ve lost track of the number of people who have contacted me privately since the story broke. They tell me of their own encounters with Demarest. Most of them don’t make…

Why Are You Doing this to Robb Demarest?

This is Woman #7  In Her Own Words It was 31 March, 2016 Sydney time, two days after my first post on the Demarest scandal, and three days after the story broke in New Idea magazine.   Halfway around the world in Portland, Oregon, a woman woke up to messages from her friends about a…

Robb Demarest and the Playboy Covergirl

She’s a famous celebrity and former Playboy covergirl –  the ultimate trophy girlfriend. This is Woman #8 in her own words. I love how she is so dismissive of Demarest; for instance, despite being once engaged to him, she spelled his name “Rob”, which I know is one of his biggest pet peeves. Also, after…

The Super-Exceeding Relationship

My last installment generated predictable complaints from Demarest groupies that went along the lines of – “This is just sour grapes from a bunch of jilted women” and “What’s this got to do with the paranormal? We don’t care about his personal life.” First of all, female groupies, if you only knew how often Demarest…

The Women In Their Own Words – 2

This was originally meant to be a 2-part series but I’ve decided to split it into more segments since it’s in dire danger of running into multiple thousands of words. In this installment covering Woman #1, I finally met someone who dated Demarest before me and learned about his Ghost Hunters International liaisons. This is what the women…

I Get What You’re Doing Now

That was the message from a male friend who had been following my Demarest posts from Day One, and who had originally questioned whether my “obsession” might be hurting me. (If you’re one of those people who wonder the same thing, trust me, it’s not – it’s my way of reclaiming my power and sending a message to…

The Women In Their Own Words – 1

I’ve written in previous posts about some of the Demarest women and how I found them. This 2-part series lets them tell their stories in their own words.  It’s not always practical to screenshot the conversations (large chunks of of them reveal too much about their identities), so I’ve mixed them up with quotes from the transcripts….

Psychology and the Demarest Scandal

I can cook Malaysian food, I can fix computers and I can speak a bunch of languages. These are the skills I’ve accumulated over the years as a Malaysian street food expert, IT consultant and BA (Languages) graduate. You know what I’m completely clueless about? Human psychology.   Over the last few weeks since I…

I Know Another Woman…

I’ll never forget those words. Let’s backtrack to two days before. On 27 March 2016, I sent out this email to my mailing list. The story was due to break the next morning – —————————————— , on Easter Monday, New Idea Magazine will feature an interview with me – and it has NOTHING to do with food…

Today Tonight TV Interview About Robb Demarest Scandal

This is the story about Ghost Hunters International’s Robb Demarest that aired on Australia’s Today Tonight on 5 April 2016. The interview was conducted a week before that. At the time of the interview I was aware of only 3 women but by the time it came on TV, more had come forward. There are…