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Robb Demarest’s Filipino Maid In Her Own Words

(I’m truly sorry I have to keep writing about this sordid saga, but until Mr. Demarest retires from attempts to prolong his celebrity, making him a danger to other vulnerable women, I will continue to share what I know.)

That’s what Saudi Arabia-based Mr. Demarest called this woman- his Filipino maid.

During our long-distance relationship, Mr. Demarest would occasionally make reference to his “maid”- eg. when he had to cut our Skype conversation short because his maid had arrived, or when he whined about not being able to find something because his maid had probably put it away somewhere without telling him.

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Robb Demarest at my place in 2013 – Jackie M.

This is what his “maid” had to say –

(original transcripts with parts redacted for confidentiality/relevance and rearranged/grouped according to topics)

…Lol maybe his referring to me as his Filipina housekeeper

Fist he cannot have housekeeper because his also one of the servant,  2ND he cannot afford to buy visa for a housekeeper, pay her monthly salary and his kids are not living with him., only during weekend…

Who then is she? –

We chatted (on a dating site) 2011 and meets up in his work house, here in (Saudi Arabia)…

After our 1st & 2nd date 2011, i stop my communication with him..because i have to give space for my self and analyzed his personalty and attitude towards women (that time i can feel something fishi going on). So i started dating with other guys, to forget him.

2013 no idea of the month he texted me and ask me to meet up and spend sometimes, that time i was depress. I refuse to see him but he is very good in convincing ladies, charms and jokes i agree to see him again.

After seeing him..turns into agreement that i have to visit him during weekdays if i have time and weekend, in short we became in touch again…continue till 2014.

It’s hard for me to keep track of how many women he would have been juggling between 2011-2014 so here’s the link to my original (and incomplete) Robb Demarest Relationships Timeline (I’m Woman #2) >> https://robbdemarestcheats.com/2016/04/15/the-robb-demarest-relationships-timeline/

In our early days I had specifically asked Robb Demarest about whether he had dated anyone in Saudi Arabia; this was his response back on Jan 2, 2012 (just days before he told me he had fallen for me) –date.png

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Robb Demarest – …Yup. I don’t anger easily and certainly not with female friends or “partners”. Perhaps where the infidelity came from. I think she wanted more of a hulking jerk. I had the hulking part down but I dont start bar brawls….Next time! =). This was back in the States. I don’t date here. It’s more effort than I am willing to exert. I also dont want to get committed to anything or anyone in Saudi. I have zero desire to stay here. For me, it’s like serving a prison term. I just have to count my days! Speaking of which, spoke to the producer today and he said the meeting is “sometime this week”. I thought it was going to be today but oh well.

So he doesn’t “anger easily” etc. What does his Filipino girlfriend have to say about this gentle giant (and their break-up)?

…His moody  and kinddah jerk – he want me naked walking around the house..sometimes call me your my bitch.

We had a big fight when he open my phone while i was on shower and ask me about the man i dated before., i said he was not here anymore – then his face is so red.. and i feel so scared.. he call me bitch... and i decide not to come back again to his house.

he is close to hit me that big day of us. im so nervous., i just wondering if his on drugs because his hands is always shaking.

his so mad man, he doesn’t care if your hurting in bed..i am just (small) in height compare to his height…every-time i am telling him not to do raft things to me, he do enjoy it, and even your sleep he will wake you up and fores to do sex with him.

He enjoyed seeing you in pain while his doing it

Even saying stop, still he will continue and never say sorry

What he says about women –

…one time i ask him about his past love life. if he have, if he fall in love, he answer never.

I said why – because he said he hate ladies, they are cheater. 

… i ask all of the (TV) cast with him- and i focus on the lady wearing boots, i think shes the xxxxxx., he said that shes after him but shes stinky and she (he) will never go on bed with her.

(Actually yes he did – that’s one of his women ^^- Jackie M.)

Also, as far as me being the only Asian he claimed to have ever dated, it would appear that was made up, now that the Filipina has come forward (not that it matters to me, so chill out. I’m just pointing out his prolific lies).

Not only that, this was what she had to say –

I am not the only Asian women that he f**ked

He told me he met one in dubai, working in a restaurant inside the airport, they dated a while and after that she been dumped by him, I ask why he dump her, he said she (I’ve redacted the rest of what was said because it’s crude and highly derogatory – Jackie M.). His a bad mouth about her. Then I just let it go the topic.

(If you’re reading this and you’re Robb Demarest’s Dubai Asian ex-girlfriend, please contact me if you want to know what he said about you – Jackie M.)

His persona –

…The things i hate about him is letting you feel that your special., and because of that you will do what ever he ask for…but the truth is his just using you for his own good… 

his always telling me that i should be proud of, “that i am dating a T.V. show personality”.

My eyebrow raise of what he said but his self, just ignore it- i thought maybe because his an american.

Using her to further his TV career –

He ask me if i can find him shows in the Philippines for ghost hunting, i have relatives who’s working in channel 7, was planning to contact them when the time he check my phone and we had a big argument., so i forgot it all..

Cropped screenshot of one of her emails (print is too small for entire width) –

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And this is another sample via text –

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Jackie M vs The Paranormal

First up, an update on the Robb Demarest story, then I’ll launch into the main topic of this post.

  1. What I’ve shared is only the tip of the iceberg. Mr. Demarest knows it. I believe that’s why he’s gone into hiding.  Last I checked, this remained his last post on Facebook –

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The timing is not a coincidence. (Talk to me if you want the backstory on this statement.)

Based on the Likes and comments on that post, it’s clear hundreds of people either still do not know about this story, or they’re so dazzled by his “celebrity” that they don’t care.

The fact that Mr. Demarest has gone quiet is a good start, but in that same update he said he might start posting again in 2017, presumably when all this has died down. He said as much in a voicemail to one of the women when the story first broke in late March 2016, indicating he would lie low until that “crazy Aussie woman” (yes, that would be me) gets bored.

He’s also kept his Facebook account active, which allows him to continue to talk to potential victims (which I know for a fact he’s doing).

I guess he couldn’t resist another stab at the limelight because not too long after that post, Mr. Demarest decided to accept a nomination for some favourite ghost hunter award run by a paranormal group. To support his nomination, he posted a video on their Facebook page, telling you why you should vote for him.  Thankfully, enough people knew about this scandal to contact the organisers. They removed his entry.

What do these latest developments mean? It means you need to continue to spread the word about Robb Demarest. Lives have been and will continue to be ruined because of him. Women have wasted precious reproductive years holding out for this man who groomed us to have his babies. Simultaneously. Got us to plan weddings and living arrangements. You need to stop enabling him or pandering to his ego in the hope that some of his celebrity will brush off on you. 

If you’re a first time visitor to this site, be sure to check out some of the earlier stories to get a full picture of how everything unfolded. I can appreciate that individual posts may seem disjointed and leave you with the impression that we’re just a bunch of angry, scorned women. I’m sorry if you feel that way.  For the sake of truth you need to remove all biases as you read them.

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2. I want to talk at length about fake psychics, real psychics and the dark realm of the paranormal but it’s probably outside the scope of this website, so I’ll just condense everything in this post. I understand most of my audience is plugged into the paranormal world so this will turn some people against me. Hear me out.

If there’s one good thing that has come out of this sordid affair, it’s the fact that in the process of investigating the stories and trying to wrap my head around all the elements, I’ve decided that the Bible was right when it warned in no uncertain terms about dabbling in the paranormal (Leviticus 19:31, Deuteronomy 18:9-12 etc.). I had started doing so several years ago by consulting psychics (long story, yes, go right ahead and judge me) and by being involved in a couple of ghost hunting shows.

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All the psychics I consulted assured me Robb was the real deal, and that he was my “soulmate”. One of the other women similarly saw a psychic about him, and apparently he was her “soulmate”; as with my readings, they didn’t pick up on his rampant infidelity. Not one bit.

To this day, only one psychic has contacted me directly who said he had a very bad feeling about Robb before all this came out and that he tried to warn his friend (Woman #7).

Many of those who continue to support him are supposed to be psychics; just check out his Facebook page.

Go look up which psychics continue to do events with him. If they don’t know about this scandal or they don’t believe the overwhelming evidence (none of which Mr. Demarest refutes, by the way), does it mean they are fake? Or just morally compromised enablers of his bad behaviour? 

How about this theory (I actually have a couple more but let’s go with this) –

Let’s give the psychics the benefit of the doubt. Let’s assume none of them are frauds (the ones I consulted were all highly recommended). Is it possible the “real” psychics are themselves deliberately deceived by whatever spirit guides they use?

If you believe that they’re malevolent spirits (masquerading as benign entities), it’d make sense that they would want to wreak havoc and destruction in as many lives as possible. Remember, through their continued association with Mr. Demarest, some of these women claim they were driven to mental and emotional breakdowns and suicidal thoughts.

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A “women’s advocate” who reached out and counselled Woman #7 and reported back to me with her permission
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Transcript of accuser’s account

Then there’s the misfortune that seems to follow those associated with the genre. I know of 3 television paranormal people directly linked to Mr. Demarest that have died premature deaths in the last 12-18 months – one brutally murdered, one via suicide and one in mysterious circumstances. I knew two of them personally.

I’ve seen strange scratches on Mr. Demarest’s body. He used to talk about seeing shadows in his house.  According to Mr. Demarest himself, his psychic friends have told him he has as many as 12 “spirits” attached to him. Here’s where he told me about them back in January 2012 (last paragraph; “edited” means that he had edited the post) 

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And I referenced them in a later conversation –

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I’ve witnessed first hand, his destructive drinking, anxiety attacks, bouts of suicidal depression, unpredictable rage, depravity and more.   I’m not minimising his personal responsibility but you have to ask how much of his behaviour is because he opened himself up to the paranormal from an early age.

I’ve seen one of our co-stars get possessed by a malevolent spirit and another lose his health from his role as the show’s resident medium. 

I was worried for Mr. Demarest but he always downplayed this kind of stuff and I rationalised that it comes with the territory for someone who’s a “professional” ghost hunter.

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In the last few months, since talking to the other women involved in this story, I’ve come to realise it’s not just the “professional” paranormal people who are susceptible to demonic oppression. Remember how Mr. Demarest targets his victims – apart from everything else (single mothers, etc.), they’re fans of the paranormal.

I’ve seen unexplained scratches on some of the women in this story. I know instances of what I suspect are demonic activity and manifestation but I won’t cite them publicly because of confidentiality.  I’ve never come across so much personal tumult in such a small group of people. It’s very startling, and if you know me, you’ll know I’m no alarmist. Take this as my announcement that I’ll never be involved in the paranormal realm again, whether as a “harmless hobby” or whatever else.

I was warned by a psychic against exposing Mr. Demarest before the story broke. Since I came forward I’ve been threatened by psychics/pagan witches who are connected to him. I’m talking about forebodings of disaster and ruin and what sounded like a veiled threat of spells or curses against me and that sort of stuff.  My Hakka stubbornness means, of course, there’s zero chance I’ll back down.

The fact that I’ve been unscathed through all this and none of that bad omen has come to pass etc. reminded me of these words –

1 John 4:4 – .. the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world. 

What’s the deal with all these Bible references? See, once upon a time, I was a practising Christian. Here’s another theory – maybe my tattered faith from yesteryear, hanging by a thread, was enough to protect me from harm. So take this as my announcement that I’ve now returned to the fold and am once again a Jesus follower, humbly repenting of all my wretched life decisions of the last decade and more.

In a conversation with one of the women some six months ago, I said in an angry outburst that Mr. Demarest is headed to Hell. She replied that only God will decide that. She’s right. Robb Demarest is a predator and a scumbag, but I hope that one day he finds redemption and forgiveness through the saving grace of Jesus Christ. (I forgive you, Robb. Now, go pick up a Bible and read it.)

Over and out (until such time as Robb decides to make a comeback. Remember, tip of the iceberg and all that).

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TV shoot in Malaysia for Seekers Season 9

NB. Re: the pics in this post, you might be inclined as a fan of Robb D. to think I was riding on his coattails in these TV shows. As a matter of fact, I was the one who pitched these projects for him along with Haunting:Australia, and I was responsible for getting him back on television after he got fired from GHI. (I’m not saying this to boast but to remind you to come up with a better argument than the tired old “she’s after her 15-minutes of fame” accusation.)

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Robb Demarest’s Accuser In Her Own Words

A woman who came forward, who has agreed to let me share her story.

This was how it started.

I received a rapid-fire succession of private messages from a stranger after one of my social media shares about Robb. Not unusual in itself, considering how many people have contacted me over the months since I started this website.

These were the messages (my responses removed) –

People need to know wot an absolute horrible, mental, disgusting creature robb demarest is!!!

I hope he gets wot Is coming to him!!!

I’ve encountered him x horrible person x

I wish I could tell u more, but I can’t take any risk xx

I can’t say tho what happened to me to hate that man but I can point u in directions x

I promise u I’m not lying

Please please keep this confidential x

I thought initially that she was another ex-girlfriend, but she rejected that outright and said they were never in a relationship. She was very guarded with her information; she would only say that the police were called. That got my attention.

It took several days of back-and-forths to get the full story out of her. It was mentally gruelling because of my familiarity with the accused.

I’ve largely removed my own dialogue (with minor exceptions) and changed the order of some of the conversation to produce a linear retelling of the alleged assault (a lot of the information came in small, disjointed bites, especially at the beginning).

Naturally, I deleted all references that would expose her identity and that of others in the story.

She said she had been tasked with picking up Robb Demarest for a couple of hours’ sightseeing during one of his “celebrity ghost tours”.

I’ve grouped together some of the messages to show her state of mind.

This is the accuser – a single mom in a loving, supportive relationship at the time of the encounter – in her own words –

What she thought about Robb Demarest –

I don’t know much about robb at all

I don’t know who or what he is like.

I never dated him or ever wanted to

This man destroyed my life!

He is a sick twisted dangerous man x women need to be warned about him!!!

He is a sick, violent disgusting man xx

Her background –

I was just happy being a woman of 36 enjoying going back to school, met an amazing man and then he (Robb) fucked it all up for me

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Her account of what happened –

I was meeting him at the holiday Inn to take him round the sites

I had met him a few times while doing investigations

I was their to take him around the scenery

He said to me come up and knock the hotel door

I’m so fucking stupid!!!!!

If I didn’t go to his hotel room! I’m so stupid and trusting😭😭

He still scares me

But other women need to know x

His hands went everywhere

When they went down the front of my trousers I remember saying no and he just went on saying it is just a vagina!

No means no in my eyes

He could see the tears running down my face

When did you start crying? – Jackie M

After I told him no

I wasn’t dressed slutty. I was in a pair of jeans and a black top which went to my neck nearly

He bruised me and took any dignity I had x

He twisted my nipples right round so I had to lie down again x

(swearing)

Sorry

Flashbacks

I get this alot still

He tried to sort of strangle me during

Then realised

He wouldn’t let me leave till 6.30

Told me he wanted snuggles

And wanted me to tell him I loved him

The tears were trip me

I think it was roughly 2 2half hours

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I couldn’t even Google his name

But now I can x it’s hard to see his face but I will get there in time x

When I look at him, it just reminds me of the rage in his face

When he twisted my nipple I could see (the rage)

When he told me to lie down again

Massive bruise

It was like he knew wot he was doing

He keep saying to me ” tell me you love me” I was like no I don’t I love my boyfriend Please let me go

He liked to have his penis sacked while he watched

God it was awful!

So many people didn’t believe me

I actually doubted myself for a long time x

He tried to do anal with me!!!

Sorry

I keep getting flashbacks

I’ve just never been able to talk about it

I promise u he did this to me and he is a complete monster

He nearly ruined my life for my children

If it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t be here x

He didn’t even use a condom or anything

I feared for wot he might do

He is strong

It has taken to now to come through this

Even as we speak it really hurts

I just wanted to go hom(e)

I just wanted away

He left bruises on my nipples, breast top of thighs

I showed the police

Good days x bad days x u have helped me cope better

(About her supportive partner)
Oh yes xxx he took me to police x

Did Robb get arrested? – Jackie M

Nope x He was moving from saudi at time to florida maybe Took them at least 6months (to complete the investigation)

Did the police contact him? – Jackie M

Yea

I showed the police

They wanted to do an internal and swabs but I couldn’t!

I just wanted out of there

Last thing I wanted was someone touching me

I want him exposed I want people to read about what sick things he does

I have the letter from the public prosecution office…

Yes their was rape crisis out with me as well to take notes x

I had to get sti tests done

I’ve never spoke to anyone since the day it happened properly apart from police

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Her current mindset –

I haven’t been sleeping great

Yea xx i just worry xx

I will be OK x

I still have the odd nightmare x

I even think u think I’m lying

I swear I’m not x

I wouldn’t ever lie about that

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R u ok????

I’m really panicking now

Maybe I shouldn’t have told you x

I’m sorry I’m a very honest person x

It took me a full year to get over my trauma x I was cutting myself just so I could feel something x

U have made me feel so much better knowing that he is a crazy man!

I cried knowing that other women have been on his wicked side x but happy I wasn’t on my own x

If I didn’t have children to protect I wouldn’t care if the world knew wot he did to myself and other women !

I really hope someone stands up and gets this out there!!!

That’s wot I worry about to x

I want to see him suffer

Put him in with all the rapists in jail!

I’m so glad the first post is about him and his horrible attitude on Google x

If I had of knew wot sort of man he was, I would never have ever been in that situation

This man needs to be stopped x

It would be amazing if people eould come forward
Would

I will never ever let a man do that to me again.

I want women to know, never ever be alone with this thing x I wouldn’t be surprised if their is a lot more women x

I just worry about everyone x

I just don’t want to go backwards again

I didn’t like the darkness

I really wish other women would come forward

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Robb Demarest – The Early Years

A couple of weeks back, I received a message from yet another woman congratulating me for exposing Robb Demarest. I dropped her an email and this was her reply (reprinted here in its original form, with permission) –

Robb and I dated while we were both in college during the early to mid 90’s. I think we were together for about 2 years long distance. We met because my roommate was dating his roommate, different colleges of course.

I visited his home several times. He was living with his  mother at the time.
He was never abusive in anyway to me. But he did lead me to believe that he loved me and I was the only one in his life. I guess his family played along too since I’m sure he had other girls over to his house.

The last time I was at his house alone ( was at work). I found a photo album full of pictures of girls. I found the pictures of me that I sent him. I removed my pictures and put the album back where I found it. That was the last time I went to his family home. A few years later after college I did see him again at his apartment in Vermont. I’m not sure why I saw him again I guess I really never got over him. I use to say he was my first love. But no he was still the same Robb from college.

Tried to convince me that he loved me and I was special. I knew non of this was true.
I guess we really never had a break up. Our relationship just ran its course. In hindsight I realized I was just a part of his game. I wasn’t special and I definitely was not the only one.

Maybe 2 years ago I got in contact with him. I was curious to see if adulthood changed him at all. He claimed to be living in Saudi Arabia at the time. I have no idea if any of this is true.
Not supervising he had not changed at all except physically. Still a user of woman and playing his games.

I must add he was never violent with me ever. But he did play with my emotions and made promises he did not keep or rather had no intention to keep.

I have to say your story and the story of others you share just does not surprise me.
He is handsome, smart and charming. Easy for a woman to get sucked in to his games.
I’m so sorry that you were one of his many victims.

I hope I have answered your questions and maybe helped a little.
If there is any thing else please feel free to contact me.

Still I say good on ya for putting him in the spot light for being the ass that he is.

If you’re a Robb Demarest victim, I’d love to hear your story – you can contact me through social media or via my website 😉

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Supposedly Robb’s first place of work, but who knows what to believe. Pic from my archives.

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The Violence

“I’m 6’4” 250 pounds with two earned black belts. There is the potential for me to hurt people very badly.” – Robb Demarest, 2012

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I’ve lost track of the number of people who have contacted me privately since the story broke. They tell me of their own encounters with Demarest. Most of them don’t make it into these pages because they’re anecdotal and I’m pedantic.

Some information came through to me in the last 24 hours that’s so shocking I had to corroborate and then share. The informant is highly confidential so I’ve had to leave out most of what I’ve been told, to protect their identity.

Demarest knows how to put on a good show. He’s charming and charismatic and funny and self-deprecating in public. His fans adore him. They don’t see the other side of his character. If you got hurt by him, you must have asked for it or you’re lying.

There is a lot of online speculation about “why Robb Demarest is no longer on Ghost Hunters International”. The internet has been generous to suggest he left due to his strong, principled stand against some creative decisions in the show. This, I’m sorry, is wishful thinking. He got fired. He told me.

This is one of the stories he relayed back in 2012 about a drunken incident while they were filming on location. It involves allegations he assaulted a female cast member, Brandy. These are his own words –

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The following is direct copy-paste from the rest of the conversation with parts redacted for confidentiality, brevity and relevance –

[3:54:15 PM] Robb Demarest: Its just scary. Im 6,4 250 pds with two earned black belts. There is the potential for me to hurt people very badly….

[3:56:00 PM] Jackie M: You need to be able to move on from it. I gather you were very apologetic to her…

[3:58:51 PM] Robb Demarest: I ws overly apologetic, but in reality, I dont remember it all. Its frightening…It makes me wonder what the heck is repressed in me that could cause a lot of damage.

[3:59:59 PM] Jackie M: It hasn’t changed my perception of you. You’re still my honey.

[4:00:50 PM] Robb Demarest : Thank you. But it still scares me. You have to understand,it is very hard to stop someone my size once I gain momentum.

[4:03:55 PM] Robb Demarest: The Incredible Huk comparrison is reasonable. There is that part of me that is lurking, and once it’s out, it’s very hard to stop.

[4:07:36 PM] Robb Demarest: My mick family has a serious history of alcohlism.

[4:07:55 PM] Jackie M: Your mick family?

[4:08:04 PM] Robb Demarest: Irish

[4:08:13 PM] Jackie M: Oh ok.

[4:08:27 PM] Jackie M: Do you have a problem w alcohol?

[4:08:58 PM] Robb Demarest: When I abuse it.

This behaviour is backed up by someone from Ghost Hunters International who wrote me in relation to Demarest’s behaviour on-set –

“People felt fearful of what may happen day to day. No one should have to be scared of coming to work or fearful for their safety at work.”

The following audio clips were messages left by Demarest after an incident with Woman #7. An Italian paranormal associate had contacted her and requested an interview with Demarest. In his message, he had made the mistake of complimenting her on her looks. She made the mistake of forwarding the message to Demarest wholesale. 

I’m sharing the clips in reverse order so you get to first hear what ensued as framed by Demarest –

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And this is the recording that Demarest sent to Woman #7 which he claimed was the message he left the Italian guy.

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The person in this story won’t come forward for fear of reprisal. This is what she said –

  • She was terrified because he displayed signs of violence – she said it seemed like he was trying to strangle her
  • She had bruises in specific areas of her body that lasted days after the incident

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I relayed the informant’s story to Woman #7 last night –

Woman #7 – Omg!!! I feel so sorry for her… he is rough!! I believe her and I understand why she is scared.. He is a bully …we had went to the coast he got mad at me and told me to shut the fuck up.. When I started to cry he made  fun of me crying.. Then after he got really drunk he said he was sorry… When we had sex he was really rough when I told him to stop he wouldn’t it’s like he didn’t care I see that now.. Omg Jackie.. We dodged a bullet that we are not with him anymore.. I too am still traumatized as you are too I still see a psychiatrist once a week…

Here are some other points she relayed to me (transcripts available on request) – 

  • Immediately after the incident she was in shock and just wanted to go home
  • Feelings of self-blame and guilt (thinking she was stupid to put herself in that situation ie. being alone with him) 
  • Cutting herself so she could break through the numbness
  • Suicidal thoughts
  • Nightmares 
  • He wouldn’t take NO for an answer.
  • He forced himself on her.
  • She is still traumatised to this day.
  • She was in a committed relationship when this happened.
  • She has kids.

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World Boxing Champion Delivers Knockout Punch to Ghost Hunter’s Denials

Back when we first met, Demarest “confessed” to me about his promiscuous past, while promising he was a changed man. I asked him at the time why there were no scandalous stories about him online.

He said that was because he used to date women who were in the public eye. His theory – it was in their interest to keep their reputations scandal-free.

I guess he’s since learned that his theory failed when it came to me.

I think it’s important as a public figure to make a stand and speak out about this predator.

Robb Demarest has denied my accusations and called me a liar; he tells his loyal followers that he never dated 2 women at the same time. Until now, all you had was his word against mine and that of 7 anonymous women.

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I’ve been privileged to connect with Robb’s girlfriends – courageous, resilient, beautiful, strong women – who have generously told me their own stories and provided a mountain of evidence in the form of timelines, chat transcripts, voice messages, photos etc. to support my claims.

It would be easier for them to forget everything and move on with rebuilding their lives. Reading some of my posts re-opens raw wounds, yet they continue to encourage me and help in whatever way they can.

These women, most of whom are private citizens, are not in a position to go public for a variety of reasons – career, family, reputation – not to mention being the target of unsympathetic victim blamers and Demarest groupies.

I reached out to some of Demarest’s past co-stars who were rumoured to have been involved with him. None of them stepped up and some even continue to collaborate with him by signing up with his newly-formed agency, Raven’s Entertainment. I guess he was right to rely on their silence.

Now, Robb Demarest is going to find out that his theory about public figures has failed for a second time.

Meet Mia St John, 5-time World and International Boxing Champion and Playboy Covergirl – aka Woman #8

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Since we connected, I’ve gotten to know Mia as an incredible inspiration; her story is a profile in courage both in her professional and personal life.

She is a passionate advocate for mental health awareness through her foundation – http://www.miastjohnfoundation.org/ – and I am so proud (not to mention relieved) that she has chosen to step up and, in effect, confirm her side of the story about which I’ve written at length in previous posts.


On behalf of all the women, thank you Mia, for coming forward to deliver the knockout punch to Demarest’s lies.

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Why Are You Doing this to Robb Demarest?

This is Woman #7  In Her Own Words

It was 31 March, 2016 Sydney time, two days after my first post on the Demarest scandal, and three days after the story broke in New Idea magazine.  

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Story in New Idea Magazine on Monday 28 March 2016. I particularly like the silhouette of the rat on the left.

Halfway around the world in Portland, Oregon, a woman woke up to messages from her friends about a story they’d read online concerning her boyfriend.

In fact, I would find out later that he had previously warned her about this “crazy Australian chick who was going to spread rumours about him because she was upset he wouldn’t go to Vietnam with her”.

This coincided with his discovery on March 9 that I had found out about his cheating. He had tried to contact me back then but I’d ignored all his calls and messages.

Demarest knew me well enough to know I was going to take action. And I knew Demarest well enough to know he would stalk me online to get a sense of what I would do, so despite having blocked each other on social media, I made a point of continuing with my usual, innocuous, shares while I put together my plan of action.

It had been an intense 48 hours – I was sharing the New Idea story everywhere and churning out blog posts while fielding media calls, responding to attacks from Demarest’s defenders and talking to the women who started coming forward.

These women in turn were supplying me with names of other potential victims that they thought I needed to track down. Profiles they had largely (though not all) collated from their observations of past, flirty interactions with Demarest on his social media pages.

Some of the leads turned out to be hostile, and I had some unpleasant exchanges that made me leery of reaching out to others. Woman #7 was on the list and the fact there was a very recent photo of them together made me think she was probably going to be staunchly in Camp Demarest.

I wasn’t looking forward to making contact.

As it turned out, I didn’t have to.

Late at night on 31 March Sydney time, I received a number of messages from The Daily Mail. I called them back and gave them a 45-minute interview, then headed to bed. During the night, the reporter managed to track down Woman #7 to ask her about her relationship with Demarest.

I woke up to this message the next morning –

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Woman #7I’m sorry to bother you but why are you doing this to Robb Demerest I just need to know. Thank you
Apr 1 · Sent from Messenger

Woman #7 – Will you please call me? I need closure please. xxx xxxxxx
I need to know the truth. Thank you.. You can call me on messenger as well.
Apr 1 · Sent from Messenger

Jackie M Tang
Hey xxxx, are you on skype? my id is xxxxx
Apr 1

Woman #7 – No I do not.. I just need closure.. I am not ok. I am supposed to be practicing routines for work tomorrow but I’m so upset I haven’t been able to move
Is this all true?
Apr 1

My heart broke. Up to this point, all the women I had spoken to were no longer in a relationship with Demarest. For what it was worth, they’d had time to recover somewhat from their break-ups by the time they found out about his cheating.

Woman #7 was different.

During the course of our conversation Robb was messaging and calling her.  I was trying to convince her not to take his call until she heard all the evidence.

Apart from these texts she also left me some voice messages because she was too upset to write. Listening to her timid, anguished voice was gut wrenching.

(ps. these are direct copy-pastes from our conversation, with bits pulled out for brevity and confidentiality)

Jackie M Tang – Are you still “with him”?
Woman #7 – Yes
He just left a week ago he met my family
Can I ask you a favor woman to woman will you please keep this confidence please I don’t want to break down
….

Woman #7  – He said he loved to me
Jackie M Tang – He said that to all of us.
Woman #7  – Because we are still together and I still love him

Jackie M Tang – You need to stop.
Woman #7 – Actually not after this
I believe you
I am completely in shock and I feel NOM inside
I’m sorry to bother you
Jackie M Tang – I’m glad you made contact.
When was the last time you spoke?
Woman #7  – An hour ago
Jackie M Tang – Did you talk about this?

Woman #7  – I told him about all these messages he said they were all lies and To ignore them

Jackie M Tang – Well I’m very sorry xxxxx but they’re true. You are #7
When did you start dating him? ……

Woman #7 – I started dating him March 7, 2015
Jackie M Tang – How many times did you meet up?
Woman #7 – He came to see me for the first time in December. Then he came and saw me a week ago he was doing event for us at the xxxxxxx and he stayed with me and extra week to meet my family
Jackie M Tang – Are you single? Any kids?
Woman #7 – Thank you for keeping me anonymous I don’t want anybody to know I don’t want him to know or my family
I am single and I do have kids they are adults

Jackie M Tang – Are you going to keep talking to him?
Woman #7  – I understand that I hope he doesn’t hurt anyone else
Jackie M Tang – Did he talk of a future? I’m guessing he’s got lots of compromising photos like with all the other women.
Woman #7 – After messaging you no I will block him after my talk with you. Yes we talk to our future of moving in together
Jackie M Tang – Were you planning on moving to Florida?
Woman #7 –  We didn’t really talk about a place
He has thousands of pictures of me when I say thousands I am not lying
I feel completely stupid
I just don’t want my family and friends to know I’ve been through a lot in the last two years I don’t want to put my family and friends through it

Woman #7 – We were supposedly in a relationship since March 7 now I know it’s all a lie he just messaged me but I’m not gonna respond like I said I’m gonna block him after our conversation there’s nothing I have left to say to him
I’m just going to tell my friends and family it didn’t work out
Jackie M Tang – What was his last message?

Woman #7 –  A sticker with hearts
Woman #7 – He’s trying to call me now but I’m not answering
Thank you I trust you 100%
Thank you for being strong enough for all of us
Jackie M Tang – Thank you for believing me
Woman #7 – I do. Please keep me posted and I will do the same again I’m going to go block him right now
Bye Jackie
Jackie M Tang – You bet. Bye xxxxxxx

I’ve cut out portions where I gave her specific examples of Demarest’s multiple relationships.

My public silence between when he realised on March 9 that I had made contact with 2 of his past girlfriends, and March 28 when the story was published, had paid off.

Not knowing what I was going to reveal, he had told her to ignore anything by a crazy Aussie woman who wanted more from their friendship and was now spreading lies about being in a relationship with him.

He then changed it to say that he and I broke up a long time ago, back in 2012. Oh, and any allegations of cheating are ancient history and he was now a changed man (sound familiar?). He had never and would never cheat on her.

When the story and my blog posts were published, she confronted him about the very recent dates in my blog post transcripts. He started to slip up, saying (following based on voice messages supplied by Woman #7) –

1) we were joking around when he said that I was his Baby and he owned me etc. In fact, it was a running joke between the two of us, apparently.

2) he couldn’t even remember where he was in February 2016, that he might have been in Saudi (no, he moved back to Florida in 2015)

3) this voice message is revealing in his specificity about not cheating on her with me (as opposed to cheating on her, period) –

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Keep in mind she dated him from March 2015-March 2016;

  1. This was his message to Woman #6 in November 2015 (responding directly to HER suspicions he was cheating) –

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(The following are gleaned from interviews with the relevant women; transcripts available on request)

2. He broke up with Woman #3 in November 2015, then tried to get back with her a few weeks later.

3. He wanted Woman #4 to book them a hotel room for a tryst in June 2015 and got upset when she refused.

4. He proposed marriage to Woman #1 in February 2016 after he and I were done for good.

5. He tried to get back with Woman #5 in February 2016 after his marriage proposal to Woman #1 was knocked back.

6. And these are snippets of our Vietnam plans made in February 2016 (blocks of his dialogue blacked out because of their sexual nature) –

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Notice this next bit where I asked if he’s seeing anyone else since he had disappeared for months before making contact again in January 2016 –

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Demarest soundbite the next day after talking about Vietnam – 

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I guess in Robb Demarest’s moral universe, this kind of behaviour isn’t “cheating”.

Woman #7 subsequently sent me this message from Demarest. No “I’m sorry, I love you, etc. – just this”,  as she put it. –

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Woman #7 has had a rocky time getting back on her feet emotionally. Out of respect and to allow her time to heal, I’ve left some details out from her account of their relationship. As bad as it seems, some of the worst of Demarest’s behaviour remain undisclosed to this day to protect the women.