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Fact Or Faked? The Robb Demarest Apology

Is Robb Demarest’s apology sincere? What do you think?

This is just a small sample of some of the comments that filtered through in response to my last two posts –

“A leopard never changes its spots”

“He has apologised because he has been backed into a corner and knows he’s being watched”

“His letter is stupid”

And here’s an email I received –

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Dear Jackie,

I’m not sure if you will ever read this email, but since I’ve been following your posts about Robb for a couple of years, I felt compelled to write.

First, a little background about me. I used to be a huge GHI fan and admit to having a bit of a celeb crush on Robb. That’s the reason why I Google’d his name one day and came upon your site. I was simply astounded reading your story and those of the other women. But I immediately believed everything you wrote for a simple reason: there was always something about him that seemed “off.”

I used to leave posts on his Facebook account and was pretty surprised that he responded to a number of them. Most celebrities don’t give you the time of day, and that’s what I’ve come to accept. His responses took my fandom to the next level. Looking back, that’s a nice way of manipulating a person – these guys know that if you give a fan a tiny bit of attention, they will just feel even crazier about you. Around that time, I opened a Google+ account.

Not really understanding how the whole thing worked, I left it alone until Robb actually asked me to join his “circle.” Despite my crush, I was happily married (at the time), and getting the invite from him just gave me a creepy feeling. I accepted his invite, but I stopped posting and interacting with him. When I read your blog, I was really glad I did. I began to see that that’s how he managed to engage with so many female fans, eventually developing romantic yet twisted relationships with them. He seems to like Asian or other ethnic women the most (I’m also Asian). By the way, you are absolutely stunning, and I can see why he fell for you.

From reading your blog, I could see that Robb is a narcissist, as well as a sociopath. He had to be as most normal people couldn’t juggle that many relationships in that many countries, promising marriage and babies and a happily ever after to a multitude of women. I can barely keep track of my own relatives and friends. How he managed to juggle so many women is beyond me. Only an evil, fucked up individual could do something like that so successfully, and for so long.

I never thought he would ever admit to being wrong and actually apologizing. I’m sure you didn’t either. As astounded as I was first finding out the truth about him, I was just as astounded reading his apology to you. If you decide to accept his apology, that is your right, and I will stand by whatever decision you make. Even though I don’t know you, however, as a woman who has supported you from afar, I just have to say that I don’t have a good feeling about the situation. I don’t completely buy his apology. He’s like the criminal who’s not sorry for committing the crime…he’s just very very sorry he got caught.

Your web site very much was a public service announcement, not only for female fans of Robb but for women everywhere who are in a vulnerable state. I have since separated from my husband and was thinking about dating again, but I decided not to take the plunge right away, knowing that I tend to be very naive and gullible when it comes to men. I could have easily fallen for someone like Robb. I tend to trust too easily if anyone shows me a modicum of kindness and attention. Reading your blog made me a bit more wise to reality in general – that few things are as they seem, and that most people have skeletons in their closets. Your blog has helped me navigate the world a bit more cautiously.

I think ultimately your web site helped him face the music, so to speak. He probably lost potential gigs because of it. He probably has had less success manipulating women because of it. He has had to face the disappointment of his children because of it. He had no choice but to recognize that he was found out and that he could no longer get away with his bullshit. Therefore, he had little choice but to make a public apology, hoping to garner the sympathy of those around him.

In my mind, he apologized because he had no choice. And reading the responses by women on his apology posts were disgusting…they were quick to say what a great guy he is for owning his mistakes (without probably even knowing the background), and they were even quicker to think even MORE highly of him for doing so. Genius move, don’t you think?

HIs apology seemed so weak. So vague. I think if he was truly sorry and honest about wanting to become a better man (think of all the abusive assholes before him who have said the same thing after being caught – think Chris Brown and Harvey Weinstein), I’d have to hear him say in detail EXACTLY what he did to you and all those other women.

I want him to tell his fans that dated multiple women at the same time, promising them marriage and babies and the world. I want him to tell his fans how he lied to each of those women, and how he did abusive things to them in bed against their will. I wonder then if his fans will continue telling him what a great guy he is.

His 15 minutes of fame have long been over. You originally said that you wouldn’t stop going after Robb until he leaves his “celebrity” life behind. I think you should stand by that. As long as there are women who are enamored by his past celebrity, someone like him will NEVER change.

You can’t suddenly not be a narcissist. You can’t suddenly not be a sociopath. How does one make such a drastic 180 change as he is claiming to make? I just don’t buy that he is a “changed man.” I think he is a cornered man, and his only way out of the corner is to appear humble, make a feeble apology, and then gain the forgiveness and love of people who don’t know the full story. PLEASE don’t take down your web site. Let it be a permanent warning for women. It helped me. Think of all the other thousands you probably helped.
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Please continue to be cautious, Jackie. I wish you and your adorable son well.

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As with everything else connected to this website, there were a lot of backroom discussions that took place before, during and after the “apology”; enough for me to fill a book.

Woman #13, whose story I’ve yet to tell, stepped in to mediate between the two of us. Through her efforts, Robb and I finally talked after 27 months of open warfare. We talked for countless hours almost every day for 3 weeks.

We are no longer talking.

Stay tuned to find out what happened, as I will be sharing transcripts of my chats with a number of key players over that period. Then you can draw your own conclusions about the Robb Demarest apology.

(ps. for those who don’t know, Fact or Faked was a TV show, the star of which Robb attacked publicly on Facebook when he and I broke up in 2016. That’s another story for another day.)

BTW, I’m not sure if the email writer above saw this specific comment on Robb’s initial apology on Facebook, but it is typical of the kind of support he was receiving from his fans. This infuriated many behind the scenes, whose comments calling him out were being deleted.

 

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Robb Demarest’s Filipino Maid In Her Own Words

(I’m truly sorry I have to keep writing about this sordid saga, but until Mr. Demarest retires from attempts to prolong his celebrity, making him a danger to other vulnerable women, I will continue to share what I know.)

That’s what Saudi Arabia-based Mr. Demarest called this woman- his Filipino maid.

During our long-distance relationship, Mr. Demarest would occasionally make reference to his “maid”- eg. when he had to cut our Skype conversation short because his maid had arrived, or when he whined about not being able to find something because his maid had probably put it away somewhere without telling him.

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Robb Demarest at my place in 2013 – Jackie M.

This is what his “maid” had to say –

(original transcripts with parts redacted for confidentiality/relevance and rearranged/grouped according to topics)

…Lol maybe his referring to me as his Filipina housekeeper

Fist he cannot have housekeeper because his also one of the servant,  2ND he cannot afford to buy visa for a housekeeper, pay her monthly salary and his kids are not living with him., only during weekend…

Who then is she? –

We chatted (on a dating site) 2011 and meets up in his work house, here in (Saudi Arabia)…

After our 1st & 2nd date 2011, i stop my communication with him..because i have to give space for my self and analyzed his personalty and attitude towards women (that time i can feel something fishi going on). So i started dating with other guys, to forget him.

2013 no idea of the month he texted me and ask me to meet up and spend sometimes, that time i was depress. I refuse to see him but he is very good in convincing ladies, charms and jokes i agree to see him again.

After seeing him..turns into agreement that i have to visit him during weekdays if i have time and weekend, in short we became in touch again…continue till 2014.

It’s hard for me to keep track of how many women he would have been juggling between 2011-2014 so here’s the link to my original (and incomplete) Robb Demarest Relationships Timeline (I’m Woman #2) >> https://robbdemarestcheats.com/2016/04/15/the-robb-demarest-relationships-timeline/

In our early days I had specifically asked Robb Demarest about whether he had dated anyone in Saudi Arabia; this was his response back on Jan 2, 2012 (just days before he told me he had fallen for me) –date.png

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Robb Demarest – …Yup. I don’t anger easily and certainly not with female friends or “partners”. Perhaps where the infidelity came from. I think she wanted more of a hulking jerk. I had the hulking part down but I dont start bar brawls….Next time! =). This was back in the States. I don’t date here. It’s more effort than I am willing to exert. I also dont want to get committed to anything or anyone in Saudi. I have zero desire to stay here. For me, it’s like serving a prison term. I just have to count my days! Speaking of which, spoke to the producer today and he said the meeting is “sometime this week”. I thought it was going to be today but oh well.

So he doesn’t “anger easily” etc. What does his Filipino girlfriend have to say about this gentle giant (and their break-up)?

…His moody  and kinddah jerk – he want me naked walking around the house..sometimes call me your my bitch.

We had a big fight when he open my phone while i was on shower and ask me about the man i dated before., i said he was not here anymore – then his face is so red.. and i feel so scared.. he call me bitch... and i decide not to come back again to his house.

he is close to hit me that big day of us. im so nervous., i just wondering if his on drugs because his hands is always shaking.

his so mad man, he doesn’t care if your hurting in bed..i am just (small) in height compare to his height…every-time i am telling him not to do raft things to me, he do enjoy it, and even your sleep he will wake you up and fores to do sex with him.

He enjoyed seeing you in pain while his doing it

Even saying stop, still he will continue and never say sorry

What he says about women –

…one time i ask him about his past love life. if he have, if he fall in love, he answer never.

I said why – because he said he hate ladies, they are cheater. 

… i ask all of the (TV) cast with him- and i focus on the lady wearing boots, i think shes the xxxxxx., he said that shes after him but shes stinky and she (he) will never go on bed with her.

(Actually yes he did – that’s one of his women ^^- Jackie M.)

Also, as far as me being the only Asian he claimed to have ever dated, it would appear that was made up, now that the Filipina has come forward (not that it matters to me, so chill out. I’m just pointing out his prolific lies).

Not only that, this was what she had to say –

I am not the only Asian women that he f**ked

He told me he met one in dubai, working in a restaurant inside the airport, they dated a while and after that she been dumped by him, I ask why he dump her, he said she (I’ve redacted the rest of what was said because it’s crude and highly derogatory – Jackie M.). His a bad mouth about her. Then I just let it go the topic.

(If you’re reading this and you’re Robb Demarest’s Dubai Asian ex-girlfriend, please contact me if you want to know what he said about you – Jackie M.)

His persona –

…The things i hate about him is letting you feel that your special., and because of that you will do what ever he ask for…but the truth is his just using you for his own good… 

his always telling me that i should be proud of, “that i am dating a T.V. show personality”.

My eyebrow raise of what he said but his self, just ignore it- i thought maybe because his an american.

Using her to further his TV career –

He ask me if i can find him shows in the Philippines for ghost hunting, i have relatives who’s working in channel 7, was planning to contact them when the time he check my phone and we had a big argument., so i forgot it all..

Cropped screenshot of one of her emails (print is too small for entire width) –

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And this is another sample via text –

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Jackie M vs The Paranormal

First up, an update on the Robb Demarest story, then I’ll launch into the main topic of this post.

  1. What I’ve shared is only the tip of the iceberg. Mr. Demarest knows it. I believe that’s why he’s gone into hiding.  Last I checked, this remained his last post on Facebook –

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The timing is not a coincidence. (Talk to me if you want the backstory on this statement.)

Based on the Likes and comments on that post, it’s clear hundreds of people either still do not know about this story, or they’re so dazzled by his “celebrity” that they don’t care.

The fact that Mr. Demarest has gone quiet is a good start, but in that same update he said he might start posting again in 2017, presumably when all this has died down. He said as much in a voicemail to one of the women when the story first broke in late March 2016, indicating he would lie low until that “crazy Aussie woman” (yes, that would be me) gets bored.

He’s also kept his Facebook account active, which allows him to continue to talk to potential victims (which I know for a fact he’s doing).

I guess he couldn’t resist another stab at the limelight because not too long after that post, Mr. Demarest decided to accept a nomination for some favourite ghost hunter award run by a paranormal group. To support his nomination, he posted a video on their Facebook page, telling you why you should vote for him.  Thankfully, enough people knew about this scandal to contact the organisers. They removed his entry.

What do these latest developments mean? It means you need to continue to spread the word about Robb Demarest. Lives have been and will continue to be ruined because of him. Women have wasted precious reproductive years holding out for this man who groomed us to have his babies. Simultaneously. Got us to plan weddings and living arrangements. You need to stop enabling him or pandering to his ego in the hope that some of his celebrity will brush off on you. 

If you’re a first time visitor to this site, be sure to check out some of the earlier stories to get a full picture of how everything unfolded. I can appreciate that individual posts may seem disjointed and leave you with the impression that we’re just a bunch of angry, scorned women. I’m sorry if you feel that way.  For the sake of truth you need to remove all biases as you read them.

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2. I want to talk at length about fake psychics, real psychics and the dark realm of the paranormal but it’s probably outside the scope of this website, so I’ll just condense everything in this post. I understand most of my audience is plugged into the paranormal world so this will turn some people against me. Hear me out.

If there’s one good thing that has come out of this sordid affair, it’s the fact that in the process of investigating the stories and trying to wrap my head around all the elements, I’ve decided that the Bible was right when it warned in no uncertain terms about dabbling in the paranormal (Leviticus 19:31, Deuteronomy 18:9-12 etc.). I had started doing so several years ago by consulting psychics (long story, yes, go right ahead and judge me) and by being involved in a couple of ghost hunting shows.

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Filming in Malaysia for Asia:Food.Travel.Mystery

All the psychics I consulted assured me Robb was the real deal, and that he was my “soulmate”. One of the other women similarly saw a psychic about him, and apparently he was her “soulmate”; as with my readings, they didn’t pick up on his rampant infidelity. Not one bit.

To this day, only one psychic has contacted me directly who said he had a very bad feeling about Robb before all this came out and that he tried to warn his friend (Woman #7).

Many of those who continue to support him are supposed to be psychics; just check out his Facebook page.

Go look up which psychics continue to do events with him. If they don’t know about this scandal or they don’t believe the overwhelming evidence (none of which Mr. Demarest refutes, by the way), does it mean they are fake? Or just morally compromised enablers of his bad behaviour? 

How about this theory (I actually have a couple more but let’s go with this) –

Let’s give the psychics the benefit of the doubt. Let’s assume none of them are frauds (the ones I consulted were all highly recommended). Is it possible the “real” psychics are themselves deliberately deceived by whatever spirit guides they use?

If you believe that they’re malevolent spirits (masquerading as benign entities), it’d make sense that they would want to wreak havoc and destruction in as many lives as possible. Remember, through their continued association with Mr. Demarest, some of these women claim they were driven to mental and emotional breakdowns and suicidal thoughts.

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A “women’s advocate” who reached out and counselled Woman #7 and reported back to me with her permission
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Transcript of accuser’s account

Then there’s the misfortune that seems to follow those associated with the genre. I know of 3 television paranormal people directly linked to Mr. Demarest that have died premature deaths in the last 12-18 months – one brutally murdered, one via suicide and one in mysterious circumstances. I knew two of them personally.

I’ve seen strange scratches on Mr. Demarest’s body. He used to talk about seeing shadows in his house.  According to Mr. Demarest himself, his psychic friends have told him he has as many as 12 “spirits” attached to him. Here’s where he told me about them back in January 2012 (last paragraph; “edited” means that he had edited the post) 

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And I referenced them in a later conversation –

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I’ve witnessed first hand, his destructive drinking, anxiety attacks, bouts of suicidal depression, unpredictable rage, depravity and more.   I’m not minimising his personal responsibility but you have to ask how much of his behaviour is because he opened himself up to the paranormal from an early age.

I’ve seen one of our co-stars get possessed by a malevolent spirit and another lose his health from his role as the show’s resident medium. 

I was worried for Mr. Demarest but he always downplayed this kind of stuff and I rationalised that it comes with the territory for someone who’s a “professional” ghost hunter.

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In the last few months, since talking to the other women involved in this story, I’ve come to realise it’s not just the “professional” paranormal people who are susceptible to demonic oppression. Remember how Mr. Demarest targets his victims – apart from everything else (single mothers, etc.), they’re fans of the paranormal.

I’ve seen unexplained scratches on some of the women in this story. I know instances of what I suspect are demonic activity and manifestation but I won’t cite them publicly because of confidentiality.  I’ve never come across so much personal tumult in such a small group of people. It’s very startling, and if you know me, you’ll know I’m no alarmist. Take this as my announcement that I’ll never be involved in the paranormal realm again, whether as a “harmless hobby” or whatever else.

I was warned by a psychic against exposing Mr. Demarest before the story broke. Since I came forward I’ve been threatened by psychics/pagan witches who are connected to him. I’m talking about forebodings of disaster and ruin and what sounded like a veiled threat of spells or curses against me and that sort of stuff.  My Hakka stubbornness means, of course, there’s zero chance I’ll back down.

The fact that I’ve been unscathed through all this and none of that bad omen has come to pass etc. reminded me of these words –

1 John 4:4 – .. the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world. 

What’s the deal with all these Bible references? See, once upon a time, I was a practising Christian. Here’s another theory – maybe my tattered faith from yesteryear, hanging by a thread, was enough to protect me from harm. So take this as my announcement that I’ve now returned to the fold and am once again a Jesus follower, humbly repenting of all my wretched life decisions of the last decade and more.

In a conversation with one of the women some six months ago, I said in an angry outburst that Mr. Demarest is headed to Hell. She replied that only God will decide that. She’s right. Robb Demarest is a predator and a scumbag, but I hope that one day he finds redemption and forgiveness through the saving grace of Jesus Christ. (I forgive you, Robb. Now, go pick up a Bible and read it.)

Over and out (until such time as Robb decides to make a comeback. Remember, tip of the iceberg and all that).

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TV shoot in Malaysia for Seekers Season 9

NB. Re: the pics in this post, you might be inclined as a fan of Robb D. to think I was riding on his coattails in these TV shows. As a matter of fact, I was the one who pitched these projects for him along with Haunting:Australia, and I was responsible for getting him back on television after he got fired from GHI. (I’m not saying this to boast but to remind you to come up with a better argument than the tired old “she’s after her 15-minutes of fame” accusation.)

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Robb Demarest – The Early Years

A couple of weeks back, I received a message from yet another woman congratulating me for exposing Robb Demarest. I dropped her an email and this was her reply (reprinted here in its original form, with permission) –

Robb and I dated while we were both in college during the early to mid 90’s. I think we were together for about 2 years long distance. We met because my roommate was dating his roommate, different colleges of course.

I visited his home several times. He was living with his  mother at the time.
He was never abusive in anyway to me. But he did lead me to believe that he loved me and I was the only one in his life. I guess his family played along too since I’m sure he had other girls over to his house.

The last time I was at his house alone ( was at work). I found a photo album full of pictures of girls. I found the pictures of me that I sent him. I removed my pictures and put the album back where I found it. That was the last time I went to his family home. A few years later after college I did see him again at his apartment in Vermont. I’m not sure why I saw him again I guess I really never got over him. I use to say he was my first love. But no he was still the same Robb from college.

Tried to convince me that he loved me and I was special. I knew non of this was true.
I guess we really never had a break up. Our relationship just ran its course. In hindsight I realized I was just a part of his game. I wasn’t special and I definitely was not the only one.

Maybe 2 years ago I got in contact with him. I was curious to see if adulthood changed him at all. He claimed to be living in Saudi Arabia at the time. I have no idea if any of this is true.
Not supervising he had not changed at all except physically. Still a user of woman and playing his games.

I must add he was never violent with me ever. But he did play with my emotions and made promises he did not keep or rather had no intention to keep.

I have to say your story and the story of others you share just does not surprise me.
He is handsome, smart and charming. Easy for a woman to get sucked in to his games.
I’m so sorry that you were one of his many victims.

I hope I have answered your questions and maybe helped a little.
If there is any thing else please feel free to contact me.

Still I say good on ya for putting him in the spot light for being the ass that he is.

If you’re a Robb Demarest victim, I’d love to hear your story – you can contact me through social media or via my website 😉

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Supposedly Robb’s first place of work, but who knows what to believe. Pic from my archives.