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I Am Annaliesje (Part 6) – Final Warning

(Final part of Annaliesje’s story, in her own words -)

Checklist of what Robb Demarest says or does.

Robb will –

  • Meet you online on FB, Twitter, etc or at an event…usually paranormal.  Sometimes from a like on one of his comments or pages.
  • Say he loves you

 

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  • Call you Baby
  • Tell you that you are his girlfriend

 

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  • Tell you that he is divorced
  • Talk bad about everyone in the paranormal, even in his own local group
  • Tell you how people wronged him in the paranormal field
  • Tell you about his family wronging him
  • Tell you stories of his friends cheating on their girlfriends and that he could never understand why they cheat
  • Tell you that he is a 1 woman man and you are the one, he does not believe in cheating, and if you do, you are out!

 

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  • Beg you to have his baby and let him get you pregnant and have God decide
  • Call you his wife, wife-to-be or his fiancée.  You are spoken for.
  • Send you tons and tons of cartoon stickers, mostly pregnant girl ones

 

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  • Say romantic things to you (online) but in person…just drama and passive aggressive behavior
  • Make you question your recognition of memories between both of you and second guess yourself
  • Make you feel that you can change him and protect him from what your friends and family say about him
  • Have you make him your priority and make you feel like distancing your friends and plans for him
  • Make you feel sorry for him

 

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  • Charm you and make you forget the ugliness of things between you both that has happened..the fighting but he will remind you that it was all you

 

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  • Send pictures back to you that you had sent him..to make you feel uncomfortable
  • Constantly beg for naked pictures and videos telling you what he wants you to do in them

 

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  • Cut you off for days if you question or say something he does not want to hear or he will change the subject or just keep texting you cartoon messages as a response
  • Hate your friends, only like the married ones
  • Tell you that he is your best friend and that is final
  • Call or text at his own time and you better be there for him 24/7
  • Tell you his phone is broken or he does not have one, he will only do everything online
  • Tell you how and what to post on-line and tell you things like don’t cut your hair or not to go
  • Talk bad about all his girlfriends, they are all cheaters and liars
  • Use his celebrity status (if you can call it that) to charm his way to you
  • Make you keep your relationship private but will make you change your status to (IN A RELATIONSHIP) ON FB. He will not change his and will monitor your posts.
  • Not talk to you for days or weeks at a time periodically
  • Make you feel like you are on eggshells around him..he gets mad very easily
  • Get jealous very easily

 

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  • Talk bad about other paranormal involved people that are relatively famous, but then he will post a picture of himself with them, example…profile pic on FB
  • Tell you he wants to help you with your kids and wants a baby with you
  • Tell you he wants to get an apartment with you and give you a timeline when he will move out of the house and on his own without his ex wife

 

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  • Plan a future of marriage with you

 

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The End – as Robb used to say.

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I am Annaliesje (Part 1)

In my own words…I am Annaliesje.

Once upon a time, he broke me in a million pieces; it felt like tiny knives stabbing me over and over.  That part is gone now.  That was a little over a year ago, a week after Easter. Something I will never forget. A permanent scar, but at least this bleeding wound has healed. I am not perfect or innocent and have never claimed to be…I am human and I make mistakes.

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I met Robb Demarest in March of 2015.  I had been training to become a fitness instructor, my dream job.  A Facebook junkie that I am, I was constantly looking at my favorite newsfeeds and liking my favorites, at times, making comments as most people do on Facebook.  

I still remember that day, It was a Saturday morning, before leaving for training at the gym. I liked and commented on a few things on a page that Robb was included in; I can’t remember on what but I got so excited when he liked my comment.  

All of a sudden, I got an instant message from Robb.  He said simply, Indonesian?

My heart skipped, I was so excited.  

I had been loving the paranormal shows and watched them all, since they had came out at the time.  I always loved Robb and the fact that he spoke his mind and that he seemed strong and educated and had so much experience in the paranormal, but it was not really a crush on Robb, at first, I did not feel anything like that for him, but mainly a friend. Yup, that’s true.  

We exchanged a couple more messages but mainly my nationality and my involvement with the Portland Underground (Shanghai Tunnels). I told him that I was a tour guide and told him of a few things that I had experienced down there.  After a couple more messages, I had told him I had to leave for the gym.  

I messaged my phone number and told him that he could message me anytime, he messaged saying, I am usually JUST ONLINE…I did not think too much about that message at that time.  

I finished my class at the gym and noticed that he friend requested me…I was so excited and happy, I accepted quickly.

We messaged each other that night and from there it was almost daily.  He usually would message at night or early morning.  We started sharing little personal things about each other.  I told him about the friends that I had that turned against me, being a human trafficking survivor and some of the strange things that were happening to me paranormal wise.  

That I was seeing a psychic medium and had a ghost attachment named Nina from the Shanghai Tunnels.  

He asked if I had any kids and I was slightly taken back when he asked me if I would ever get married again or have kids.

It had only been a week.  I told him NO WAY…

He told me that he would make it his goal to change my mind about kids and marriage, that when he meets the right one, he wanted to have another baby and be married.  

He had told me that he was DIVORCED and that he had 2 kids.  

Almost daily, we continued messaging each other.  But, I started to freak out a little bit because everything we did was ONLINE…

I told him, should I be worried about RED FLAGS? Why won’t you call me.  

He then said that he was sorry, he did not live in the States but in Saudi.  He did not have a phone, it was too expensive to use it there, so everything had to be online.  

He then called me using the messenger phone, I still remember when I heard his voice for the first time, I got chills, I was so excited, I started to really fall for him.  

We continued to talk of our stories and goals in life.  He helped me through things that I was going through, the aftermath of Human Trafficking, also, I had an agent at the time, that was steering me in the wrong direction of filming and movies that almost ended up down a wrong path in LA.

I was very naïve and one thing I will have to say, Robb did save me on that.  Little did I know he was seasoning me to believe in him and trust him with some of my very darkest times and personal accounts.

Everything happened very quickly, it was like a whirlwind for me.  Within a few weeks, things were getting serious as we started sending cute little pictures to each other, mostly I would, he maybe had sent a total of 5 pictures of himself to me and no, no nudes.  

He would joke at first and say that he can’t see much with all that clothes on.  

I started showing my bra a few times, like a sneak peek and my lacey underthings.  He would give me the best compliments and say how beautiful and sexy that I was and THAT was his…I almost choked, he said, that I was his??  

If I showed him a boob, he would say, that’s mine.  I started getting more brave and sending more pictures.  We would call them Robb Selfies.  If I did not send one in a while, he would say, I need a Robb Selfie.  

We continued to chat online and everything had to be secret.  

He told me that he was a private person and that he did not want anyone know that we were together, that he had to have something at least to stay private and that he had a judgmental fan base.

When I would post things, I would always would call him GREEN HEART, that way Robb would know I was talking about him…Example.  I love my green heart, I love him…His favorite color was green so I just would type the green heart, it was our thing…a code.  

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Things suddenly changed after a few months, sometimes he would get mad at me for posting my gym selfies and he would not talk to me for a day or two.

If I did not answer when he tried to call me on messenger, he would get upset with me.  

I worked full time and then had gym training. I was also a tour guide and a paranormal investigator;  I was on alert 24/7 by Robb.

Constantly looking at my phone…worried I would be missing a text or call from him.  

This started to affect my job and my friends started getting worried about me and began asking questions and questioning this relationship.  

At first, Robb was upset because I told 3 of my closest friends about us, but I told him that I had to, they were my best friends. I would end up losing them all to this day except for my sister.

He hated them all, he only liked my friends that were married including my sister.  We started talking about him coming to Portland Oregon and seeing the Shanghai Tunnels and that we were going to have time together and go to The Oregon Coast.  

Robb started to call me, HIS L’IL BABY and he called me ONA..instead of Annaliesje or Annaka.  

One day he would be loving and sweet and the next mad at me.

Sometimes he would call me on the messenger phone, drunk…so drunk I could not understand him.  

I started turning down my plans with my friends and running home instead to be on the phone (messenger) with Robb sending him picture after picture…he started requesting videos…

Yes, I did that too.  Anything Robb would ask, I would do.

HE would tell me what he wanted me to do in the videos and pictures…

I am 100% telling the truth that I had sent him 1000’s and 1000’s of pictures and videos within that year we were dating…yes, we were now a couple, as he put it.  

I was his baby and his wife to be, he would say.  

He would send me tons of those online stickers cartoons on messenger, most of them were a picture of a girl pregnant, he wanted us to have a baby together, I said no, I always kept saying no and that I couldn’t.   

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At first it was a funny joke, but it got tiresome for me…I told him to stop with the baby thing…He said nope, that I was going to be the mother of his baby.

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I was the one, that I was spoken for. He told me most psychic  mediums are fake, but one told him that he was going to meet his true love in December and she would end up pregnant with his son.   

My heart sank..I was so in love with Robb Demarest.  He would even say I was going to have his last name someday.  

(to be continued…)

Medium Posts

Did Robb Demarest Send You These Romantic Messages?

One of my early blog posts at Medium from when the story first broke, re-shared here for those who missed it.

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(Update  – EIGHT women have now come forward, seven of whom are single moms dating Robb Demarest concurrently and thinking we were all in exclusive relationships with him.)

Dear Lisa-Marie, you commented on New Idea Magazine’s love rat story about Robb Demarest.

You said you don’t believe it. That he’s a good friend.

I checked out your profile. I may be wrong, but it tells me you’re exactly the type of woman he would target.

You’re in the UK; he was in Saudi Arabia and now in the USA. How did he become your “good friend”?

Did he contact you online? Because that’s how he and I met too. You’re pretty and you’re into the paranormal. Same here.

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Does he talk a lot about his stalkers? He’s building up to when he asks you to keep quiet about your relationship — for your protection, of course.

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Did you ask him about me?

Did he say I’m just a friend who was in love with him and it wasn’t reciprocated? That’s what he told me about Brandy from GHI.

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When we officially started “dating”.

Or that we had a fling and I read it wrong? Or that we broke up years ago and I’ve never gotten over it?

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Otaku = Japanese term for people with an obsessive interest. He’s saying he’s obsessed with me.
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Message from Feb 2, 2016

Did he tell you about his sordid past, when he couldn’t take relationships seriously? That you’re his redemption and he wouldn’t do that to you? That even when he had casual flings, he never played anyone?

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Does he complain about his colleagues cheating on their partners? You would assume by contrast that he must be better than that.

Does he share about his tough upbringing? Stuff he’s never shared with other people? Photos from his pre-television past? Maybe that photo of that diner where he worked at 13 years of age?

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Nyok is my Chinese name; he’s pining for me because of our long distance relationship, supposedly.

Does he tell you about his nightmares?

Does he talk about weddings, and where you’re going to live, and how beautiful your kids would look?

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Does he remember the tiniest details about you from years back?

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This was sent from him Feb 2016 talking about one of our trips from 3 years back, in 2013

Do you share “in” jokes, culturally-specific ones to match your UK background, maybe? Does he put on a bad British accent for a laugh, pretend he’s British etc. around you?

He did that with me and my Malaysian/Chinese/Hakka heritage.

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Does he call you Baby? Did he give you a pet name, that no-one else knows you by? Mine is Nyok Tang— my Chinese name that is no longer used.

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Conversation from Feb 2016

It makes you feel special, doesn’t it?

I’m sorry, Lisa-Marie. For over 4 years, I thought I was special too.

 

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