Tag: narcissism

(Annaliesje in her own words, continues…)

I tried texting him back…I would not hear from him until the next day…of course I was at work and upset.  

He called me at work, on my lunch and said that there was an old girlfriend and other girls he dated that are out to get him…I told him that I did not care, that was a long time ago…

As long as you have not cheated on me…I don’t care…he said he would never hurt me and that he loved me…that Friday, I was to teach my very first class…early morning at 8.30am…

Now it was Thursday morning and my phone was blowing up from messages and texts about my boyfriend, Robb…it’s all over the internet…a fraud…cheater…double life…married…all these women…

I then got a call from a reporter…I was literally in shock…I was still in my PJ’s and could not move out of bed…I had to get a throw up pan and was constantly throwing up…The reporter gave me Jackie’s info…the whistle blower…

I messaged her…why are you doing this to Robb Demarest? 

Annaliesje Trees – I’m sorry to bother you but why are you doing this to Robb Demerest (sp) I just need to know. Thank you (April 1, 2016)

Annaliesje Trees – Will you please call me? I need closure please. 503xxxxxx I need to know the truth. Thank you…You can call me on messenger as well. (April 1, 2016)

She went on to tell me…I was so sick…I was so in shock…I couldn’t move…shaking…crying…

I texted Robb…he said ignore them…it is all lies…

I dated them years and years ago…

(The evidence – )

(Message from Robb Demarest to Jackie M on 2 Feb, 2016)

Robb Demarest –

You are my tiny baby

My Tang

Fact

I own the rights to Nyok Tang

Call yourself Jackie all u want but I’ll sue u

(2 Feb 2016)

(Robb’s explanation for the evidence)

(Robb Demarest claimed this was old conversation but note the mention of losing his (Saudi) job which was a recent occurrence)

Robb Demarest – 

…Swear on my kids

I wanted you 24/7

(Then come over!)

If I had the money…I got let go

(It doesn’t cost much to fly, right?)

I lost my job, Nyok. You should be my sugar momma 😉

(Sure!)

(Feb 2016)

(Conversation between Robb Demarest and Jackie M Feb 2016 re: Vietnam)

Robb Demarest – 

Hell Yes! Can we get sponsors?

(I can start asking….Vietnam I have to get my assistant to research)

Cambodia? Laos?

(Okay will put sth together)

Yay!!!!

Can I xxxxxx you?

(okay)

AWESOME!!!!!!

….

Btw I really want to…

(You’d better not be seeing anyone else)

I’m not, and you better whisper…

(February 2016)

He tried calling me over and over and texted me…

Ignored him…he texted me that he did not want to hurt me that maybe we should break up so then when people ask about him…I could say we aren’t together any longer but we will secretly keep dating…

Just to give it a rest for awhile until this whole thing blows over…

The rest of the day…it was all over FB…Twitter and on the news…

I ignored my friends and family…

I was in shock, remember, that next morning, I was to teach my very  first fitness class…and I did it, to be honest, I don’t even remember teaching it…

I know now, that was because I was in severe shock, I could barely see out of my almost closed swollen eyes.  

(More evidence from a different woman – Woman #6’s message to Robb Demarest when she found out about his trip to see Annaliesje)

Robb would text me a few more times through the week and then it stopped.  

The aftermath was awful…I got hate texts and messages from people in the paranormal and even people I did not know.  

Again, calling me a slut, liar and more or less an attention getter trying to get fame from Robb Demarest.  

When these women were coming forward, I again,  got another shock treatment, when I recognized one of the women, I had actually gone to school with her in the 9th grade and we were best friends and even modeled together for the same agency, she had moved to California and become famous!

It is a small world out there.

The women that were coming forward, I noticed that we all looked so much alike. Mostly dark hair and dark eyes.  

I ended up going to counseling; it has been a tough road but I am much better.  

I look back on this, thinking, what was I thinking and how dumb was I to have believed all of this and putting up with it.  Most people out there will say, why did you not get out of it quickly. You are stupid and etc.  I don’t know.  

For over the past 3 years, I have been going through a lot. My marriage ended after 20 years, losing friends that had sided with my ex-husband and tried to flow bad rumors about me in the paranormal and lies, the human trafficking fiasco including the TV episode I was in about it, trying to hide it all from my family,  a terrible modeling agent, and my mental health taking its toll.  

I am now out of the paranormal and no longer with The Shanghai Tunnels.  I have to stay out of the paranormal, it is not healthy for me mentally or physically.

All the time in dusty basements and investigating old houses etc, has taken an effect on my lungs.  I still today, have a spot on my lung, a lung infection, pneumonia.   This is my opinion,  but I feel like the paranormal field changes people, it did me.

I was not myself and  I began  not being happy and I was always frustrated and unhappy. There are a lot of badisms in this field. It changed me too but I changed back and got out of it.  

This will make these people mad at me for saying this but a lot of people in these groups knew about Robb and turned the other way.  His friends would even reach out to me telling me that they believe me but yet they are still friends with him to this very day.  I really don’t get it.

Robb never had anything nice to say about anyone , especially famous paranormal people out there, yes, I know about you guys. He told me how a guy from Ghost Hunters International took his job away and about his girlfriend on the show; he made me watch her on an episode on a DVD when he was here and told me she was a cheater and that her sister wanted them to get married and how all girls cheated on him. He continued over and over and over again, trash talked about everyone in the paranormal.

Robb will try to convince you that you are the one and he will pressure you to get pregnant over and over again! Yes, there was a baby involved and NO, it’s not what you think…I will leave it at that…I don’t want to talk anymore about this subject.

I am not doing this for revenge; to this very day, I still get told by friends and family to move on. They will never really understand and have never gone through this. Please let God judge…don’t judge me.  

As I have learned in counseling, people heal and recover at different speeds. I had to do this letter for me and for all women that have gone or is going through something like this.

I really want all women out there and paranormal groups out there, to really look at what’s going on.  We all are daughters, sisters, aunts , mothers and grandmothers or have them. Would you want any of this stuff to happen to them? You may hate me or not like me but I would not wish these things on my enemies!!  

I have gotten comments like – This has nothing to do with the Paranormal.  Oh, but it does.  The facts are out there, I have taken the steps to protect myself as proof! I trust no-one anymore! I have grown stronger and have learned from this, I have since gotten closer to God and have new friends in the fitness world focusing  on positivity and looking for a much brighter future and look at life.  

I still go to counseling and have started my life over.  I will never be broken again by a sexual predator, mind mixer and a fraud like Robb, ever again!

Girls, if you are currently with him, just know that I have said many prayers for you, because you will need them, because he will destroy your life like he almost destroyed mine.

(final instalment to come…)