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I Am Annaliesje (Part 6) – Final Warning

(Final part of Annaliesje’s story, in her own words -)

Checklist of what Robb Demarest says or does.

Robb will –

  • Meet you online on FB, Twitter, etc or at an event…usually paranormal.  Sometimes from a like on one of his comments or pages.
  • Say he loves you

 

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  • Call you Baby
  • Tell you that you are his girlfriend

 

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  • Tell you that he is divorced
  • Talk bad about everyone in the paranormal, even in his own local group
  • Tell you how people wronged him in the paranormal field
  • Tell you about his family wronging him
  • Tell you stories of his friends cheating on their girlfriends and that he could never understand why they cheat
  • Tell you that he is a 1 woman man and you are the one, he does not believe in cheating, and if you do, you are out!

 

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  • Beg you to have his baby and let him get you pregnant and have God decide
  • Call you his wife, wife-to-be or his fiancée.  You are spoken for.
  • Send you tons and tons of cartoon stickers, mostly pregnant girl ones

 

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  • Say romantic things to you (online) but in person…just drama and passive aggressive behavior
  • Make you question your recognition of memories between both of you and second guess yourself
  • Make you feel that you can change him and protect him from what your friends and family say about him
  • Have you make him your priority and make you feel like distancing your friends and plans for him
  • Make you feel sorry for him

 

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  • Charm you and make you forget the ugliness of things between you both that has happened..the fighting but he will remind you that it was all you

 

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  • Send pictures back to you that you had sent him..to make you feel uncomfortable
  • Constantly beg for naked pictures and videos telling you what he wants you to do in them

 

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  • Cut you off for days if you question or say something he does not want to hear or he will change the subject or just keep texting you cartoon messages as a response
  • Hate your friends, only like the married ones
  • Tell you that he is your best friend and that is final
  • Call or text at his own time and you better be there for him 24/7
  • Tell you his phone is broken or he does not have one, he will only do everything online
  • Tell you how and what to post on-line and tell you things like don’t cut your hair or not to go
  • Talk bad about all his girlfriends, they are all cheaters and liars
  • Use his celebrity status (if you can call it that) to charm his way to you
  • Make you keep your relationship private but will make you change your status to (IN A RELATIONSHIP) ON FB. He will not change his and will monitor your posts.
  • Not talk to you for days or weeks at a time periodically
  • Make you feel like you are on eggshells around him..he gets mad very easily
  • Get jealous very easily

 

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  • Talk bad about other paranormal involved people that are relatively famous, but then he will post a picture of himself with them, example…profile pic on FB
  • Tell you he wants to help you with your kids and wants a baby with you
  • Tell you he wants to get an apartment with you and give you a timeline when he will move out of the house and on his own without his ex wife

 

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  • Plan a future of marriage with you

 

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The End – as Robb used to say.

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I Am Annaliesje (Part 2)

The day finally came, and I got to be with my boyfriend. Robb flew into town to see me in December of 2015.  When I saw him, I was a little shocked; he looked so different, I know now, that the selfies he was sending me, were very old..he did not look the same.  

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Robb Demarest in person
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Robb Demarest photo sent to Annaliesje

Even so, I was so happy…right away…we left to go to my apartment, I got to take him home…my boyfriend.  On the way, Robb wanted to go to the liquor store because we were heading to the coast that next day…the owner recognized Robb from Ghost Hunters International and got his autograph…we headed home…I was so happy…

The next day we headed for the coast and had a gorgeous view in a gorgeous hotel room…our balcony was basically right on haystack rock, very famous in Oregon.  We ended drinking and we talked so much, we talked for hours…I loved him so much…then we headed to a restaurant there at the coast.  

Robb had left to use the restroom and an old couple approached me and asked if that was Robb Demarest; I said yes.  They asked if they could get his autograph, I told them that I was sure he would not mind.  

When Robb came back, his mood had changed, he seemed agitated and wanted to leave the restaurant…

I took the couple over to Robb and introduced them to him…he was rude and mean to them…it was crazy…

I started seeing this side of Robb, one minute nice and sweet calling me baby and the next minute mad.  

As we left to walk back to our room, I asked why he was so rude and he was just telling me to SHUT THE FUCK UP and SHUT UP OR HE WILL QUIET ME.  

I started crying which made him even more mad at me.  

For hours I cried as he sat on the chair and drank in our room…I ended up crying myself to sleep...

When I woke up, he was so drunk and came over to the bed and said, Baby, I am sorry, let’s just forget this, I love you and I don’t want to hurt you, you are my wife…

He is actually the nicest drunk and very sweet when he is super drunk…I noticed this that night and from there on.  We ended up having sex all night…whatever he wanted…I did everything that he wanted, comfortable or not…I wanted to make him happy.  

The next morning we woke up…I  wanted to take pictures by the ocean, pictures of us. We had a few together, but he wanted me to also just take pictures of him by himself and more so.

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He reminded me again and again, that I was not to post these pictures of us.

That night, we drove back to Portland. I was going to introduce Robb to my Shanghai Tunnels family, as I used to say and call them.  It would be the first time he would take a tour and meet everyone.  

Robb did not seem very impressed and was bored.  He kept saying he wanted us to go home.  

The last night was the night he would meet my friends.  My friends would later tell me how he made fun of me and was very rude behind my back, but they wanted to support my boyfriend and knew how happy and in love that I was that they just put up with it but secretly, I would find out later, that they could not stand him.

Robb would then leave and I would not see him for 3 months.  We were still messaging and I was still sending him 1000’s of pictures and videos.  

He told me that he loved me and that I was his baby, his wife to be.  It is not a secret that I am a human trafficking survivor and Robb knew my story. 

Robb wanted to do an event at the Shanghai Tunnels and said that it would help to raise awareness of human trafficking.  

I talked to my paranormal investigator friend Debbie Constantino a few months back before all this, and she wanted to help me as well and said she would do this event with Robb, but sadly she ended up passing away.

Another thing that I was distraught over…I thought it was strange when Debbie had passed  away that Robb said that they were good friends and knew each other well…but when I mentioned Robb to Debbie back then, she cautioned me to be careful and was not too happy I was with him, but she never went into detail about why.

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Debbie Constantino with Annaliesje at a Halloween event

I never did tell Robb this, I did not want to hurt his feelings.  Now that she has passed, I will never know her story…but I can only guess…

We then started to get the event in motion.  I had a few friends in the radio business.  I asked if they could have Robb and me on to promote this event.  Robb confirmed that the date was fine and he would love to do the interview and would do it for me.

The day of the broadcast, I confirmed with Robb on messenger , that we were to go on air in 2 hours…

I ended up doing the whole thing by myself, he never called in despite our many tries to call him from the show.

I cried so hard that night and left him a message crying and how could he do this to me…my friends, family…even my boss was listening in…wondering what happened…I was humiliated…an hour after the show he simply messaged I love you…see you in 2 weeks.

After that weekend he kept calling and I would just ignore him…he left me messages saying that he could not believe I was that upset, that a lot of people just skip out of radio shows and that no one reminded him…it was a nightmare…I, of course, forgave him but I was simply going down hill emotionally…

Robb put me on a emotional roller coaster…always mad at me, then loved me…back and forth…demanded pictures and videos and monitoring my FB.  

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(to be continued)

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I am Annaliesje (Part 1)

In my own words…I am Annaliesje.

Once upon a time, he broke me in a million pieces; it felt like tiny knives stabbing me over and over.  That part is gone now.  That was a little over a year ago, a week after Easter. Something I will never forget. A permanent scar, but at least this bleeding wound has healed. I am not perfect or innocent and have never claimed to be…I am human and I make mistakes.

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I met Robb Demarest in March of 2015.  I had been training to become a fitness instructor, my dream job.  A Facebook junkie that I am, I was constantly looking at my favorite newsfeeds and liking my favorites, at times, making comments as most people do on Facebook.  

I still remember that day, It was a Saturday morning, before leaving for training at the gym. I liked and commented on a few things on a page that Robb was included in; I can’t remember on what but I got so excited when he liked my comment.  

All of a sudden, I got an instant message from Robb.  He said simply, Indonesian?

My heart skipped, I was so excited.  

I had been loving the paranormal shows and watched them all, since they had came out at the time.  I always loved Robb and the fact that he spoke his mind and that he seemed strong and educated and had so much experience in the paranormal, but it was not really a crush on Robb, at first, I did not feel anything like that for him, but mainly a friend. Yup, that’s true.  

We exchanged a couple more messages but mainly my nationality and my involvement with the Portland Underground (Shanghai Tunnels). I told him that I was a tour guide and told him of a few things that I had experienced down there.  After a couple more messages, I had told him I had to leave for the gym.  

I messaged my phone number and told him that he could message me anytime, he messaged saying, I am usually JUST ONLINE…I did not think too much about that message at that time.  

I finished my class at the gym and noticed that he friend requested me…I was so excited and happy, I accepted quickly.

We messaged each other that night and from there it was almost daily.  He usually would message at night or early morning.  We started sharing little personal things about each other.  I told him about the friends that I had that turned against me, being a human trafficking survivor and some of the strange things that were happening to me paranormal wise.  

That I was seeing a psychic medium and had a ghost attachment named Nina from the Shanghai Tunnels.  

He asked if I had any kids and I was slightly taken back when he asked me if I would ever get married again or have kids.

It had only been a week.  I told him NO WAY…

He told me that he would make it his goal to change my mind about kids and marriage, that when he meets the right one, he wanted to have another baby and be married.  

He had told me that he was DIVORCED and that he had 2 kids.  

Almost daily, we continued messaging each other.  But, I started to freak out a little bit because everything we did was ONLINE…

I told him, should I be worried about RED FLAGS? Why won’t you call me.  

He then said that he was sorry, he did not live in the States but in Saudi.  He did not have a phone, it was too expensive to use it there, so everything had to be online.  

He then called me using the messenger phone, I still remember when I heard his voice for the first time, I got chills, I was so excited, I started to really fall for him.  

We continued to talk of our stories and goals in life.  He helped me through things that I was going through, the aftermath of Human Trafficking, also, I had an agent at the time, that was steering me in the wrong direction of filming and movies that almost ended up down a wrong path in LA.

I was very naïve and one thing I will have to say, Robb did save me on that.  Little did I know he was seasoning me to believe in him and trust him with some of my very darkest times and personal accounts.

Everything happened very quickly, it was like a whirlwind for me.  Within a few weeks, things were getting serious as we started sending cute little pictures to each other, mostly I would, he maybe had sent a total of 5 pictures of himself to me and no, no nudes.  

He would joke at first and say that he can’t see much with all that clothes on.  

I started showing my bra a few times, like a sneak peek and my lacey underthings.  He would give me the best compliments and say how beautiful and sexy that I was and THAT was his…I almost choked, he said, that I was his??  

If I showed him a boob, he would say, that’s mine.  I started getting more brave and sending more pictures.  We would call them Robb Selfies.  If I did not send one in a while, he would say, I need a Robb Selfie.  

We continued to chat online and everything had to be secret.  

He told me that he was a private person and that he did not want anyone know that we were together, that he had to have something at least to stay private and that he had a judgmental fan base.

When I would post things, I would always would call him GREEN HEART, that way Robb would know I was talking about him…Example.  I love my green heart, I love him…His favorite color was green so I just would type the green heart, it was our thing…a code.  

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Things suddenly changed after a few months, sometimes he would get mad at me for posting my gym selfies and he would not talk to me for a day or two.

If I did not answer when he tried to call me on messenger, he would get upset with me.  

I worked full time and then had gym training. I was also a tour guide and a paranormal investigator;  I was on alert 24/7 by Robb.

Constantly looking at my phone…worried I would be missing a text or call from him.  

This started to affect my job and my friends started getting worried about me and began asking questions and questioning this relationship.  

At first, Robb was upset because I told 3 of my closest friends about us, but I told him that I had to, they were my best friends. I would end up losing them all to this day except for my sister.

He hated them all, he only liked my friends that were married including my sister.  We started talking about him coming to Portland Oregon and seeing the Shanghai Tunnels and that we were going to have time together and go to The Oregon Coast.  

Robb started to call me, HIS L’IL BABY and he called me ONA..instead of Annaliesje or Annaka.  

One day he would be loving and sweet and the next mad at me.

Sometimes he would call me on the messenger phone, drunk…so drunk I could not understand him.  

I started turning down my plans with my friends and running home instead to be on the phone (messenger) with Robb sending him picture after picture…he started requesting videos…

Yes, I did that too.  Anything Robb would ask, I would do.

HE would tell me what he wanted me to do in the videos and pictures…

I am 100% telling the truth that I had sent him 1000’s and 1000’s of pictures and videos within that year we were dating…yes, we were now a couple, as he put it.  

I was his baby and his wife to be, he would say.  

He would send me tons of those online stickers cartoons on messenger, most of them were a picture of a girl pregnant, he wanted us to have a baby together, I said no, I always kept saying no and that I couldn’t.   

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At first it was a funny joke, but it got tiresome for me…I told him to stop with the baby thing…He said nope, that I was going to be the mother of his baby.

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I was the one, that I was spoken for. He told me most psychic  mediums are fake, but one told him that he was going to meet his true love in December and she would end up pregnant with his son.   

My heart sank..I was so in love with Robb Demarest.  He would even say I was going to have his last name someday.  

(to be continued…)

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Robb Demarest – The Early Years

A couple of weeks back, I received a message from yet another woman congratulating me for exposing Robb Demarest. I dropped her an email and this was her reply (reprinted here in its original form, with permission) –

Robb and I dated while we were both in college during the early to mid 90’s. I think we were together for about 2 years long distance. We met because my roommate was dating his roommate, different colleges of course.

I visited his home several times. He was living with his  mother at the time.
He was never abusive in anyway to me. But he did lead me to believe that he loved me and I was the only one in his life. I guess his family played along too since I’m sure he had other girls over to his house.

The last time I was at his house alone ( was at work). I found a photo album full of pictures of girls. I found the pictures of me that I sent him. I removed my pictures and put the album back where I found it. That was the last time I went to his family home. A few years later after college I did see him again at his apartment in Vermont. I’m not sure why I saw him again I guess I really never got over him. I use to say he was my first love. But no he was still the same Robb from college.

Tried to convince me that he loved me and I was special. I knew non of this was true.
I guess we really never had a break up. Our relationship just ran its course. In hindsight I realized I was just a part of his game. I wasn’t special and I definitely was not the only one.

Maybe 2 years ago I got in contact with him. I was curious to see if adulthood changed him at all. He claimed to be living in Saudi Arabia at the time. I have no idea if any of this is true.
Not supervising he had not changed at all except physically. Still a user of woman and playing his games.

I must add he was never violent with me ever. But he did play with my emotions and made promises he did not keep or rather had no intention to keep.

I have to say your story and the story of others you share just does not surprise me.
He is handsome, smart and charming. Easy for a woman to get sucked in to his games.
I’m so sorry that you were one of his many victims.

I hope I have answered your questions and maybe helped a little.
If there is any thing else please feel free to contact me.

Still I say good on ya for putting him in the spot light for being the ass that he is.

If you’re a Robb Demarest victim, I’d love to hear your story – you can contact me through social media or via my website 😉

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Supposedly Robb’s first place of work, but who knows what to believe. Pic from my archives.