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I Am Annaliesje (Part 6) – Final Warning
(Final part of Annaliesje’s story, in her own words -)
Checklist of what Robb Demarest says or does.
Robb will –
- Meet you online on FB, Twitter, etc or at an event…usually paranormal. Sometimes from a like on one of his comments or pages.
- Say he loves you
- Call you Baby
- Tell you that you are his girlfriend
- Tell you that he is divorced
- Talk bad about everyone in the paranormal, even in his own local group
- Tell you how people wronged him in the paranormal field
- Tell you about his family wronging him
- Tell you stories of his friends cheating on their girlfriends and that he could never understand why they cheat
- Tell you that he is a 1 woman man and you are the one, he does not believe in cheating, and if you do, you are out!
- Beg you to have his baby and let him get you pregnant and have God decide
- Call you his wife, wife-to-be or his fiancée. You are spoken for.
- Send you tons and tons of cartoon stickers, mostly pregnant girl ones
- Say romantic things to you (online) but in person…just drama and passive aggressive behavior
- Make you question your recognition of memories between both of you and second guess yourself
- Make you feel that you can change him and protect him from what your friends and family say about him
- Have you make him your priority and make you feel like distancing your friends and plans for him
- Make you feel sorry for him
- Charm you and make you forget the ugliness of things between you both that has happened..the fighting but he will remind you that it was all you
- Send pictures back to you that you had sent him..to make you feel uncomfortable
- Constantly beg for naked pictures and videos telling you what he wants you to do in them
- Cut you off for days if you question or say something he does not want to hear or he will change the subject or just keep texting you cartoon messages as a response
- Hate your friends, only like the married ones
- Tell you that he is your best friend and that is final
- Call or text at his own time and you better be there for him 24/7
- Tell you his phone is broken or he does not have one, he will only do everything online
- Tell you how and what to post on-line and tell you things like don’t cut your hair or not to go
- Talk bad about all his girlfriends, they are all cheaters and liars
- Use his celebrity status (if you can call it that) to charm his way to you
- Make you keep your relationship private but will make you change your status to (IN A RELATIONSHIP) ON FB. He will not change his and will monitor your posts.
- Not talk to you for days or weeks at a time periodically
- Make you feel like you are on eggshells around him..he gets mad very easily
- Get jealous very easily
- Talk bad about other paranormal involved people that are relatively famous, but then he will post a picture of himself with them, example…profile pic on FB
- Tell you he wants to help you with your kids and wants a baby with you
- Tell you he wants to get an apartment with you and give you a timeline when he will move out of the house and on his own without his ex wife
- Plan a future of marriage with you
The End – as Robb used to say.
I Am Annaliesje (Part 5) – The Unravelling
(Annaliesje in her own words, continues…)
I tried texting him back…I would not hear from him until the next day…of course I was at work and upset.
He called me at work, on my lunch and said that there was an old girlfriend and other girls he dated that are out to get him…I told him that I did not care, that was a long time ago…
As long as you have not cheated on me…I don’t care…he said he would never hurt me and that he loved me…that Friday, I was to teach my very first class…early morning at 8.30am…
Now it was Thursday morning and my phone was blowing up from messages and texts about my boyfriend, Robb…it’s all over the internet…a fraud…cheater…double life…married…all these women…
I then got a call from a reporter…I was literally in shock…I was still in my PJ’s and could not move out of bed…I had to get a throw up pan and was constantly throwing up…The reporter gave me Jackie’s info…the whistle blower…
I messaged her…why are you doing this to Robb Demarest?
Annaliesje Trees – I’m sorry to bother you but why are you doing this to Robb Demerest (sp) I just need to know. Thank you (April 1, 2016)
Annaliesje Trees – Will you please call me? I need closure please. 503xxxxxx I need to know the truth. Thank you…You can call me on messenger as well. (April 1, 2016)
She went on to tell me…I was so sick…I was so in shock…I couldn’t move…shaking…crying…
I texted Robb…he said ignore them…it is all lies…
I dated them years and years ago…
(The evidence – )
(Message from Robb Demarest to Jackie M on 2 Feb, 2016)
Robb Demarest –
You are my tiny baby
My Tang
Fact
I own the rights to Nyok Tang
Call yourself Jackie all u want but I’ll sue u
(2 Feb 2016)
(Robb’s explanation for the evidence)
(Robb Demarest claimed this was old conversation but note the mention of losing his (Saudi) job which was a recent occurrence)
Robb Demarest –
…Swear on my kids
I wanted you 24/7
(Then come over!)
If I had the money…I got let go
(It doesn’t cost much to fly, right?)
I lost my job, Nyok. You should be my sugar momma 😉
(Sure!)
(Feb 2016)
(Conversation between Robb Demarest and Jackie M Feb 2016 re: Vietnam)
Robb Demarest –
Hell Yes! Can we get sponsors?
(I can start asking….Vietnam I have to get my assistant to research)
Cambodia? Laos?
(Okay will put sth together)
Yay!!!!
Can I xxxxxx you?
(okay)
AWESOME!!!!!!
….
Btw I really want to…
(You’d better not be seeing anyone else)
I’m not, and you better whisper…
(February 2016)
He tried calling me over and over and texted me…
Ignored him…he texted me that he did not want to hurt me that maybe we should break up so then when people ask about him…I could say we aren’t together any longer but we will secretly keep dating…
Just to give it a rest for awhile until this whole thing blows over…
The rest of the day…it was all over FB…Twitter and on the news…
I ignored my friends and family…
I was in shock, remember, that next morning, I was to teach my very first fitness class…and I did it, to be honest, I don’t even remember teaching it…
I know now, that was because I was in severe shock, I could barely see out of my almost closed swollen eyes.
(More evidence from a different woman – Woman #6’s message to Robb Demarest when she found out about his trip to see Annaliesje)
Robb would text me a few more times through the week and then it stopped.
The aftermath was awful…I got hate texts and messages from people in the paranormal and even people I did not know.
Again, calling me a slut, liar and more or less an attention getter trying to get fame from Robb Demarest.
When these women were coming forward, I again, got another shock treatment, when I recognized one of the women, I had actually gone to school with her in the 9th grade and we were best friends and even modeled together for the same agency, she had moved to California and become famous!
It is a small world out there.
The women that were coming forward, I noticed that we all looked so much alike. Mostly dark hair and dark eyes.
I ended up going to counseling; it has been a tough road but I am much better.
I look back on this, thinking, what was I thinking and how dumb was I to have believed all of this and putting up with it. Most people out there will say, why did you not get out of it quickly. You are stupid and etc. I don’t know.
For over the past 3 years, I have been going through a lot. My marriage ended after 20 years, losing friends that had sided with my ex-husband and tried to flow bad rumors about me in the paranormal and lies, the human trafficking fiasco including the TV episode I was in about it, trying to hide it all from my family, a terrible modeling agent, and my mental health taking its toll.
I am now out of the paranormal and no longer with The Shanghai Tunnels. I have to stay out of the paranormal, it is not healthy for me mentally or physically.
All the time in dusty basements and investigating old houses etc, has taken an effect on my lungs. I still today, have a spot on my lung, a lung infection, pneumonia. This is my opinion, but I feel like the paranormal field changes people, it did me.
I was not myself and I began not being happy and I was always frustrated and unhappy. There are a lot of badisms in this field. It changed me too but I changed back and got out of it.
This will make these people mad at me for saying this but a lot of people in these groups knew about Robb and turned the other way. His friends would even reach out to me telling me that they believe me but yet they are still friends with him to this very day. I really don’t get it.
Robb never had anything nice to say about anyone , especially famous paranormal people out there, yes, I know about you guys. He told me how a guy from Ghost Hunters International took his job away and about his girlfriend on the show; he made me watch her on an episode on a DVD when he was here and told me she was a cheater and that her sister wanted them to get married and how all girls cheated on him. He continued over and over and over again, trash talked about everyone in the paranormal.
Robb will try to convince you that you are the one and he will pressure you to get pregnant over and over again! Yes, there was a baby involved and NO, it’s not what you think…I will leave it at that…I don’t want to talk anymore about this subject.
I am not doing this for revenge; to this very day, I still get told by friends and family to move on. They will never really understand and have never gone through this. Please let God judge…don’t judge me.
As I have learned in counseling, people heal and recover at different speeds. I had to do this letter for me and for all women that have gone or is going through something like this.
I really want all women out there and paranormal groups out there, to really look at what’s going on. We all are daughters, sisters, aunts , mothers and grandmothers or have them. Would you want any of this stuff to happen to them? You may hate me or not like me but I would not wish these things on my enemies!!
I have gotten comments like – This has nothing to do with the Paranormal. Oh, but it does. The facts are out there, I have taken the steps to protect myself as proof! I trust no-one anymore! I have grown stronger and have learned from this, I have since gotten closer to God and have new friends in the fitness world focusing on positivity and looking for a much brighter future and look at life.
I still go to counseling and have started my life over. I will never be broken again by a sexual predator, mind mixer and a fraud like Robb, ever again!
Girls, if you are currently with him, just know that I have said many prayers for you, because you will need them, because he will destroy your life like he almost destroyed mine.
(final instalment to come…)
I Am Annaliesje (Part 4) – Shanghai Tunnels
(Annaliesje’s story in her own words continues -)
Then there was another crisis with Robb…the event organiser, Shanghai Tunnels, got Robb a business class instead of first class plane ticket.
Robb totally lost it…
He threatened to cancel the whole event so they ended up buying him a first class ticket to Portland…
Remember Shanghai tunnels is a non-profit and this was a charity event.
Robb was to call the shots or the whole thing would be off.
Also, his promises of promoting the event did not happen…he would share the event only one time on FB and Twitter.
I spent my time promoting it but refused to make anymore radio show or TV interviews because of what he did with the radio show.
Constantly sticking my neck out for Robb, which eventually caused things to never be the same again between me and the people at the Shanghai Tunnels.
Robb would blow his fuse yet again.
I was trying to promote the Shanghai Tunnels event, so I messaged a bunch of my FB friends in the paranormal groups. I did not really know them personally, but they were friends on my FB…
One guy messaged me back…he had a paranormal group in Italy…he said his group would share the event, and he made a comment that I was so beautiful.
I messaged Robb the group’s name from my messenger and asked if he knew these guys…
I was so happy…I attached the message but it also included that comment of me being beautiful…
All of a sudden..I get voice messages from Robb…
He threatened this poor guy and sounded crazy…and drunk…
Voice message from Robb which he said he sent the Italian guy –
He called me that night and said that he loved me so much…that when he is here in a few days he is going to make it up to me…
…the time when he did not call me on Christmas just texted me Christmas night and said Merry Christmas baby…I love you
…and did not call me on New Year’s Eve
…and did not call me on my birthday…just a text that night…happy birthday
…also Valentine’s Day…nothing…no call or text
…all the things that he did to hurt me
…he was going to make it up to his wife to be, when he gets to Portland to be with me.
Robb would arrive 3 days early to spend more time with me and meet my family for the first time…my sister, cousins and more close friends.
We called it the Indonesian party and I stressed it had to be secret…
It would be a disaster…Robb was rude and my friends and sister…cousins..could not stand him…He was not friendly.
We ended fighting…we fought the rest of the time…then we made up…repeat…
The Shanghai Tunnels event ended up being a complete failure…very little tickets sold and Robb really did not want to be there, he kept saying it all night to me.
He held it together though, charming as he was with his words...with his speeches…even funny at times…One girl asked him if he had a girlfriend..and he said yes…I love my girlfriend…Robb did donate money to the fund…he said if anyone donated money, tell him how much and he would match it.
I gave the scheduled speech about Human Trafficking that I was supposed to give but ended up losing it, it was extremely hard for me and Robb saved me and finished the speech, he could be so sweet at times. He took me shopping and bought me a lot of things…and told me we were going to be going on a vacation and that he wanted to meet my mom and dad…
Dad films a lot with Outdoor Channel and Robb was hoping to meet Dad and talk...He also said that we needed to find a bigger apartment together and we needed to start planning.
Robb left that Sunday morning…
…it was Easter…
I was at mass when I got a strange text from him saying that a crazy bitch from Australia was out to get him…
(to be continued…)
I Am Annaliesje (Part 2)
The day finally came, and I got to be with my boyfriend. Robb flew into town to see me in December of 2015. When I saw him, I was a little shocked; he looked so different, I know now, that the selfies he was sending me, were very old..he did not look the same.
Even so, I was so happy…right away…we left to go to my apartment, I got to take him home…my boyfriend. On the way, Robb wanted to go to the liquor store because we were heading to the coast that next day…the owner recognized Robb from Ghost Hunters International and got his autograph…we headed home…I was so happy…
The next day we headed for the coast and had a gorgeous view in a gorgeous hotel room…our balcony was basically right on haystack rock, very famous in Oregon. We ended drinking and we talked so much, we talked for hours…I loved him so much…then we headed to a restaurant there at the coast.
Robb had left to use the restroom and an old couple approached me and asked if that was Robb Demarest; I said yes. They asked if they could get his autograph, I told them that I was sure he would not mind.
When Robb came back, his mood had changed, he seemed agitated and wanted to leave the restaurant…
I took the couple over to Robb and introduced them to him…he was rude and mean to them…it was crazy…
I started seeing this side of Robb, one minute nice and sweet calling me baby and the next minute mad.
As we left to walk back to our room, I asked why he was so rude and he was just telling me to SHUT THE FUCK UP and SHUT UP OR HE WILL QUIET ME.
I started crying which made him even more mad at me.
For hours I cried as he sat on the chair and drank in our room…I ended up crying myself to sleep...
When I woke up, he was so drunk and came over to the bed and said, Baby, I am sorry, let’s just forget this, I love you and I don’t want to hurt you, you are my wife…
He is actually the nicest drunk and very sweet when he is super drunk…I noticed this that night and from there on. We ended up having sex all night…whatever he wanted…I did everything that he wanted, comfortable or not…I wanted to make him happy.
The next morning we woke up…I wanted to take pictures by the ocean, pictures of us. We had a few together, but he wanted me to also just take pictures of him by himself and more so.
He reminded me again and again, that I was not to post these pictures of us.
That night, we drove back to Portland. I was going to introduce Robb to my Shanghai Tunnels family, as I used to say and call them. It would be the first time he would take a tour and meet everyone.
Robb did not seem very impressed and was bored. He kept saying he wanted us to go home.
The last night was the night he would meet my friends. My friends would later tell me how he made fun of me and was very rude behind my back, but they wanted to support my boyfriend and knew how happy and in love that I was that they just put up with it but secretly, I would find out later, that they could not stand him.
Robb would then leave and I would not see him for 3 months. We were still messaging and I was still sending him 1000’s of pictures and videos.
He told me that he loved me and that I was his baby, his wife to be. It is not a secret that I am a human trafficking survivor and Robb knew my story.
Robb wanted to do an event at the Shanghai Tunnels and said that it would help to raise awareness of human trafficking.
I talked to my paranormal investigator friend Debbie Constantino a few months back before all this, and she wanted to help me as well and said she would do this event with Robb, but sadly she ended up passing away.
Another thing that I was distraught over…I thought it was strange when Debbie had passed away that Robb said that they were good friends and knew each other well…but when I mentioned Robb to Debbie back then, she cautioned me to be careful and was not too happy I was with him, but she never went into detail about why.
I never did tell Robb this, I did not want to hurt his feelings. Now that she has passed, I will never know her story…but I can only guess…
We then started to get the event in motion. I had a few friends in the radio business. I asked if they could have Robb and me on to promote this event. Robb confirmed that the date was fine and he would love to do the interview and would do it for me.
The day of the broadcast, I confirmed with Robb on messenger , that we were to go on air in 2 hours…
I ended up doing the whole thing by myself, he never called in despite our many tries to call him from the show.
I cried so hard that night and left him a message crying and how could he do this to me…my friends, family…even my boss was listening in…wondering what happened…I was humiliated…an hour after the show he simply messaged I love you…see you in 2 weeks.
After that weekend he kept calling and I would just ignore him…he left me messages saying that he could not believe I was that upset, that a lot of people just skip out of radio shows and that no one reminded him…it was a nightmare…I, of course, forgave him but I was simply going down hill emotionally…
Robb put me on a emotional roller coaster…always mad at me, then loved me…back and forth…demanded pictures and videos and monitoring my FB.
(to be continued)
I am Annaliesje (Part 1)
In my own words…I am Annaliesje.
Once upon a time, he broke me in a million pieces; it felt like tiny knives stabbing me over and over. That part is gone now. That was a little over a year ago, a week after Easter. Something I will never forget. A permanent scar, but at least this bleeding wound has healed. I am not perfect or innocent and have never claimed to be…I am human and I make mistakes.
I met Robb Demarest in March of 2015. I had been training to become a fitness instructor, my dream job. A Facebook junkie that I am, I was constantly looking at my favorite newsfeeds and liking my favorites, at times, making comments as most people do on Facebook.
I still remember that day, It was a Saturday morning, before leaving for training at the gym. I liked and commented on a few things on a page that Robb was included in; I can’t remember on what but I got so excited when he liked my comment.
All of a sudden, I got an instant message from Robb. He said simply, Indonesian?
My heart skipped, I was so excited.
I had been loving the paranormal shows and watched them all, since they had came out at the time. I always loved Robb and the fact that he spoke his mind and that he seemed strong and educated and had so much experience in the paranormal, but it was not really a crush on Robb, at first, I did not feel anything like that for him, but mainly a friend. Yup, that’s true.
We exchanged a couple more messages but mainly my nationality and my involvement with the Portland Underground (Shanghai Tunnels). I told him that I was a tour guide and told him of a few things that I had experienced down there. After a couple more messages, I had told him I had to leave for the gym.
I messaged my phone number and told him that he could message me anytime, he messaged saying, I am usually JUST ONLINE…I did not think too much about that message at that time.
I finished my class at the gym and noticed that he friend requested me…I was so excited and happy, I accepted quickly.
We messaged each other that night and from there it was almost daily. He usually would message at night or early morning. We started sharing little personal things about each other. I told him about the friends that I had that turned against me, being a human trafficking survivor and some of the strange things that were happening to me paranormal wise.
That I was seeing a psychic medium and had a ghost attachment named Nina from the Shanghai Tunnels.
He asked if I had any kids and I was slightly taken back when he asked me if I would ever get married again or have kids.
It had only been a week. I told him NO WAY…
He told me that he would make it his goal to change my mind about kids and marriage, that when he meets the right one, he wanted to have another baby and be married.
He had told me that he was DIVORCED and that he had 2 kids.
Almost daily, we continued messaging each other. But, I started to freak out a little bit because everything we did was ONLINE…
I told him, should I be worried about RED FLAGS? Why won’t you call me.
He then said that he was sorry, he did not live in the States but in Saudi. He did not have a phone, it was too expensive to use it there, so everything had to be online.
He then called me using the messenger phone, I still remember when I heard his voice for the first time, I got chills, I was so excited, I started to really fall for him.
We continued to talk of our stories and goals in life. He helped me through things that I was going through, the aftermath of Human Trafficking, also, I had an agent at the time, that was steering me in the wrong direction of filming and movies that almost ended up down a wrong path in LA.
I was very naïve and one thing I will have to say, Robb did save me on that. Little did I know he was seasoning me to believe in him and trust him with some of my very darkest times and personal accounts.
Everything happened very quickly, it was like a whirlwind for me. Within a few weeks, things were getting serious as we started sending cute little pictures to each other, mostly I would, he maybe had sent a total of 5 pictures of himself to me and no, no nudes.
He would joke at first and say that he can’t see much with all that clothes on.
I started showing my bra a few times, like a sneak peek and my lacey underthings. He would give me the best compliments and say how beautiful and sexy that I was and THAT was his…I almost choked, he said, that I was his??
If I showed him a boob, he would say, that’s mine. I started getting more brave and sending more pictures. We would call them Robb Selfies. If I did not send one in a while, he would say, I need a Robb Selfie.
We continued to chat online and everything had to be secret.
He told me that he was a private person and that he did not want anyone know that we were together, that he had to have something at least to stay private and that he had a judgmental fan base.
When I would post things, I would always would call him GREEN HEART, that way Robb would know I was talking about him…Example. I love my green heart, I love him…His favorite color was green so I just would type the green heart, it was our thing…a code.
Things suddenly changed after a few months, sometimes he would get mad at me for posting my gym selfies and he would not talk to me for a day or two.
If I did not answer when he tried to call me on messenger, he would get upset with me.
I worked full time and then had gym training. I was also a tour guide and a paranormal investigator; I was on alert 24/7 by Robb.
Constantly looking at my phone…worried I would be missing a text or call from him.
This started to affect my job and my friends started getting worried about me and began asking questions and questioning this relationship.
At first, Robb was upset because I told 3 of my closest friends about us, but I told him that I had to, they were my best friends. I would end up losing them all to this day except for my sister.
He hated them all, he only liked my friends that were married including my sister. We started talking about him coming to Portland Oregon and seeing the Shanghai Tunnels and that we were going to have time together and go to The Oregon Coast.
Robb started to call me, HIS L’IL BABY and he called me ONA..instead of Annaliesje or Annaka.
One day he would be loving and sweet and the next mad at me.
Sometimes he would call me on the messenger phone, drunk…so drunk I could not understand him.
I started turning down my plans with my friends and running home instead to be on the phone (messenger) with Robb sending him picture after picture…he started requesting videos…
Yes, I did that too. Anything Robb would ask, I would do.
HE would tell me what he wanted me to do in the videos and pictures…
I am 100% telling the truth that I had sent him 1000’s and 1000’s of pictures and videos within that year we were dating…yes, we were now a couple, as he put it.
I was his baby and his wife to be, he would say.
He would send me tons of those online stickers cartoons on messenger, most of them were a picture of a girl pregnant, he wanted us to have a baby together, I said no, I always kept saying no and that I couldn’t.
At first it was a funny joke, but it got tiresome for me…I told him to stop with the baby thing…He said nope, that I was going to be the mother of his baby.
I was the one, that I was spoken for. He told me most psychic mediums are fake, but one told him that he was going to meet his true love in December and she would end up pregnant with his son.
My heart sank..I was so in love with Robb Demarest. He would even say I was going to have his last name someday.
(to be continued…)
Meet Woman #7 – Annaliesje’s Story
I wrote about Woman #7 a year ago in Why Are You Doing This To Robb Demarest? Annaliesje is now ready to go public.
In all honesty, when someone shared this Facebook picture of yet another woman who might be in a relationship with Robb Demarest, I didn’t have the stomach to contact her. She looked besotted and naive, and I was in no mood to take more abuse from those in denial of Robb Demarest’s behaviour.
I went to bed on 31 March after giving an interview to The Daily Mail. I didn’t realise the reporter would track her down during the night.
I woke up to her messages, which broke my heart –
I would find out later that Annaliesje had been dating Robb since March 2015. Between March 2015 – March 2016 (when my story broke) –
- He proposed marriage and babies to Woman #1 in February 2016
- He came back into my life (Woman #2) in January 2016 and talked about moving to Australia to be with me, then settled on a romantic catch-up in Vietnam scheduled for August 2016
- He was engaged to Woman #3 until November 2015 (then tried to resume the relationship weeks later but got rejected)
- He wanted Woman #4 to book a hotel room for a rendezvous in June 2015
- He tried to get back together with Woman #5 in February 2016
- He was planning a wedding with Woman #6 until December 2015 when she found out about his travel plans to Portland to see Annaliesje
Robb didn’t know I knew all this when Annaliesje read my story. After all, the New Idea Magazine exposé concerned only 3 known women, and they revolved around the time he was filming Haunting:Australia in 2013.
In other words, it’s an old story and part of a less-than-proud past to which he’s hinted in previous conversations, so you’re already prepared for some of the dirt a jealous ex-girlfriend might dish out. Of course, he’s now a completely changed man, and you’re responsible for his redemption because you’re just that special.
I’d heard it all before –
Thus began Robb Demarest’s campaign to discredit me to Annaliesje –
Claiming that this was ancient history and we never dated –
Suggesting they take a break until this whole thing blows over –
When he ran out of excuses, and perhaps thinking he still had a hold on her –
Robb Demarest’s Monica Lewinsky moment –
Annaliesje is prepared to tell her story. I hope it resonates with other women out there who continue to be played by Robb Demarest. There’s a lot of material to plough through so I’m breaking it into multiple installments. Stay tuned.
Protected: Letter to Robb Demarest re: Police Report
Protected: Response to Robb Demarest’s Lawyer
The Robb Demarest Story 
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